ardinje91 Posted May 29, 2012 Posted May 29, 2012 We've been together in 9 moWe've been together in 9 months, and I was in love with her. As many, our relationship was up and down also, and I had to brake up with her because I found out that she had cheated on me, which was not easy, and it did not happen over the night.. I shut all contact with her. After a year, I added her on Facebook, but she ignored me, I also met her, but she said she was over me.. since then I have started to accept that the love is gone, and that it wont be anything between us again, later I deleted and blocked her on Facebook. It's two years now, and I still have feelings for her, I dont even know what it is.. 3 days ago she added me on Facebook, I accepted and after 10 minutes she wrote to me. Hi, how are you? What are you doing? and so on. I did not answer her, and she told me good night, I did answer, and said that we'll talk another time, she said that I could call her tommorow. I called her, and she was so happy, interested in talking and sounded like she would like to meet again, I got empty for saldo (credit) and sendt her an SMS later that she should tell me when to call her. She replied that she will tell me when she's home, now it's 3 days since, and I still dont have any reply, and when she's on facebook, she does not write. I dont want to be the one asking anymore, I dont want to show my feelings any longer.. Now even my heart is open again, and I dont know what to do, days are longer and it keeps me depressed.. What should I do? What do you think? I thank a lot for serious replies, and for taking time to read. srry for my english, just found this forum, and hope for answer.
flitzanu Posted May 29, 2012 Posted May 29, 2012 it doesn't mean anything, really. it means exactly what happened. she's either bored, trying to be your friend, or trying to be nosy and see what you're up to. unless she directly tells you she wants to date you, you shouldn't read into anything she's doing.
HVane Posted May 29, 2012 Posted May 29, 2012 Control your own life. If you want to see her, see her. If you don't, don't. What she does on FB should not be the impetus for your life.
geegirl Posted May 29, 2012 Posted May 29, 2012 I dont know what to do, days are longer and it keeps me depressed... Time to remove her and start your recovery all over again. She was being a nosey poker and without any consideration for how you may feel decided to reach out. She maybe felt she would be leading you on and is now ignoring you on FB or being very casual. The thing is she is casual but you are not. The only one that stands to get hurt is you. You either block her or go back to game playing.
g450 Posted May 30, 2012 Posted May 30, 2012 She most likely is a drama queen or she wants you to stroke her ego. Dont do that! Go to her FB page and click on the block option. Then go out tonight and ask a smoking hot blond to dance with you. Problem solved. 2
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