sarah1268 Posted May 29, 2012 Posted May 29, 2012 Hi All, My bf of nearly 3 yrs broke up with me almost 4 weeks ago. Hes 22 and I'm 21. His reasons were I dont feel the same way anymore and I that I should be with someone who meets my expectations. It was a very emotional break up, he cried too. I knew we were going through a bit of a rut, we were taking each other for granted and I was nagging him a bit. But he never told me how he was feeling about it. After one week he called me, we talked for a bit and he just wanted to see how I was doing. I apologised for nagging and stuff and he said that its not all me and that I shouldnt blame myself etc. He got emotional then too. Exactly a week after that he called me and we talked for 2 hours just about our jobs, friends and what we have been up to. I was really positive and he seemed really upset the whole time, wasnt enthusiastic at all about his life. He hadn't even been out the boys much. We had a few laughs and then he was like are you happy? and I said with everything else in my life except this. And I said are you happy? and hes like not really, more melancholy (he actually used that word!) he then said I miss you. I was like well do you miss me or the relationship and he was like, no I miss you. I then said, if we were to get back together we would do things differently etc. At the end of the covo hes like, i'll call you early next week and maybe we could see a movie or something? I said that sounded good. What do you guys think?? Do you think he might want me back or is it too soon to tell? This convo happened last tuesday and I haven't heard from him since which I think is a bad sign. Please note: all contact has been initiated by him
Joseph3 Posted May 31, 2012 Posted May 31, 2012 He is broke up with you so he is keeping tabs on your life to see if your moving on or not. If you keep talking to him it'll make him feel less guilty about the break up. Move on and upgrade
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