Idontlikefalling Posted May 29, 2012 Posted May 29, 2012 (edited) Almost a year ago I fell in love with this girl who was in high school at the time. We would always hang around each other and were emotionally intimate with each other and confessed our feelings for each other. I thought she was the one . . . a few months later she broke my heart. I've been trying to heal . . . building up a new wardrobe, taking care of my body, getting rid of her in my life. I was changing the outside but the inside hasn't healed. Now a new girl enters my life a few weeks ago and I'm starting to fall for her . . . but I'm afraid to get hurt again . . . and don't want to get close to her just for her to cast me away like the last girl did . . . so I'm afraid to even talk to her unless my friend helps initiate the conversation for me. I don't know what to do. I don't know how to act like myself around her. Should I just get over my fear of rejection? Edited May 29, 2012 by Idontlikefalling
gabrielly Posted May 29, 2012 Posted May 29, 2012 Dont worry,I think musnt afraid about this!Forget about this and all will be alright)
HVane Posted May 29, 2012 Posted May 29, 2012 Awww...we all go thru this. You have a decision to make...do you want to let other people into your life, or do you want to be the crotchety old man for the next 50 years? It's hard. It's REALLY hard. But being alone is harder. So, yes, I'm a proponent of getting back on the horse
BurningDream Posted May 30, 2012 Posted May 30, 2012 You're on the right path....just take each new relationship for what it is, don't assume the same. If it happens again, its very unfortunate but that's more reason to move on to the next. I know it hurts.....just remember, don't look back you're not going that way! Learn from the past but don't hold onto it.
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