Svet74 Posted May 29, 2012 Posted May 29, 2012 Is there anyone on here that stays in touch with their ex's family after the breakup? I guess my question is and i dont know what the right thing to do is, but me and my ex attend the same church. His parents talk to me, see how im doing with life and all that. And his sister or cousins ask me to hang out with them once in a while as well. Should i exit out of the picture? My ex is never brought up in the conversations, but i dont know if hanging out with them makes my ex feel like we could possibly get back together or that im not moved on and waiting for him. I told him before if I cut him out that i would attend another church. We have been in NC for 3 months. I still attend just not as often. Any thoughts on what i should do? I havent moved on and think more about him then when we ended things so im confused.
Philosoraptor Posted May 29, 2012 Posted May 29, 2012 If you feel that it is hindering your healing I would suggest not contacting the ex's family. I'm sure if you took the time to explain to them why you need some time they would be understanding. Once you feel ok doing so again I'd assume they would be happy to hear from you again pending they took the not speaking the right way.
Author Svet74 Posted May 30, 2012 Author Posted May 30, 2012 I can't exactly tell them the reason why but i dont think they really know how emotionally invested i was in this relationship. When im gone 1 month or more they usually ask where i was and why i havent been so i usually say because of work. I do need to do this because i feel like im not healing.. in fact im going backwards and holding on to hope
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