zippy pierre Posted May 28, 2012 Posted May 28, 2012 Hi, This is my first time on this forum after reading through for the past week... I’ve recently split (ended in an argument..but feel dumped) with my ex girlfriend, we were seeing each other for two years... I'm really heartbroken. We originally wanted a small break and spent a week apart to see how we felt about each other. The break went well we knew we missed each other and told each other that we loved each other and we decided it would be worth trying again. The problem arose that we just had two massive rows in the three days after getting back. It was strange because we had never really argued before in our relationship and the original break was due feeling like we'd grown apart. The second argument got nasty and cued me packing my stuff and leaving to stop at a friend’s house whilst I licked my wounds. The problem is I feel I've messed up big time because I'm completely in love with her. I've asked her how she feels and she says she just sees me as a friend now and doesn’t want a relationship. I made a bit of a fool of myself and had a few days of begging and pleading to no avail... Now here’s my problem we still speak everyday over the phone and constantly text and email each other. She still says she doesn’t want to be with me but has asked me to meet up with her this coming weekend and stop with her and wants us to go and do something (go out/ go for a walk etc)as friends. She also still wants me to go to a concert with her and a wedding together. She has told me she doesn’t want me to think we’ll ever get back together as she wants to do stuff on her own yet shes still asking me to do things with her... my question is should I go see her or am I just making things worse for myself??
Philosoraptor Posted May 29, 2012 Posted May 29, 2012 She's done and has made it clear. Right now you need to do whatever you feel is best for moving on and healing. She has said she is done so you need to do what will lead to the best life without her as your romantic partner.
blotter Posted May 29, 2012 Posted May 29, 2012 She's done bro and looking to put you in the friend zone. If you don't mind seeing her draped around another guy you could continue to be friends.
LostInLimbo Posted May 29, 2012 Posted May 29, 2012 She's done bro and looking to put you in the friend zone. If you don't mind seeing her draped around another guy you could continue to be friends. I agree with Blotter, if you can handle just being friends, then by al means be that, but if your looking to move on and not continuesly be hurt, sever the ties and start the healing process for yourself... LiL
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