dark1san Posted May 28, 2012 Posted May 28, 2012 All started back in December, I saw emails of my ex talking to this guy she used to "lay around with", I call her out on it, denies it up and down. So I'm like ok we'll just move on. February comes, same thing, this time him telling her let's meet at that place we always talked about, and her saying well I can't get away until sometime in April. Call her out on it again, denies it says she hasn't spoken to him since we started dating 4 years ago. We talk argue, talk some more, say let's work it out the whole shabang. May comes I get home from work one night and just start listening to some music, this song comes on and I realize I'm not happy with her anymore, we hadn't been intimate since February the previous year, we hadn't kissed one another since December, like the relationship wasn't there anymore. So we just agreed to call it quits and keep being friends. I want to start dating again, it's been 3 weeks since we called it off, I just am not sure if I should wait, or say forget it.My buddy said in his mind she was done in March with us. I kinda agree. Should I not feel bad about getting back out there and dating?
geegirl Posted May 28, 2012 Posted May 28, 2012 All started back in December, I saw emails of my ex talking to this guy she used to "lay around with", I call her out on it, denies it up and down. So I'm like ok we'll just move on. February comes, same thing, this time him telling her let's meet at that place we always talked about, and her saying well I can't get away until sometime in April. Call her out on it again, denies it says she hasn't spoken to him since we started dating 4 years ago. We talk argue, talk some more, say let's work it out the whole shabang. May comes I get home from work one night and just start listening to some music, this song comes on and I realize I'm not happy with her anymore, we hadn't been intimate since February the previous year, we hadn't kissed one another since December, like the relationship wasn't there anymore. So we just agreed to call it quits and keep being friends. I want to start dating again, it's been 3 weeks since we called it off, I just am not sure if I should wait, or say forget it.My buddy said in his mind she was done in March with us. I kinda agree. Should I not feel bad about getting back out there and dating? You called it quits and you both agreed to be friends. What's the hang up? If you're ready emotionally then open yourself up to meeting others. I bet she wasn't feeling bad when she was making plans to "lay" with another behind your back when you both WERE together.
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