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Just caught ex driving by..is this potential for reconciliation?


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I was walking downstairs and she saw me. I havent gone no contact yet. But Im thinking I will now. We had one bad arguement and she wont talk to me. Surely this means she just misses me?

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Surely this means she just misses me?

 

 

No.

 

 

Don't sabotage your NC before you started it.

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read my post in your last thread. You are an absolute mess and incapable of being in a relationshhip with anyone right now..Fix yourself before attempting to get involved with another woman..

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Mack, you should feel fortunate Im even acknowleding you. FYI I alter the time periods to provide a little bit of privacy, pending someone i know googles this. Now, you need to tread very carefully, as your actions of following ne around from every thread and to insult me constitute as cyber stalking and bullying. I think you may need to work on yourself and acquire a fulfilling life, rather than chasing people around on here to call them an "absolute mess"

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Self denial is a wonderful thing. (You posted this two months ago about a different girl, even though you are with this new girl longer? No mention of your new girl in this thread -> http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/315458-wanting-gain-closure-when-my-ex-met-her-bf-worth-breaking-nc. Do you really think you are in control of your life and thinking clearly? Just read through the threads (and the responses) you have started since you have been here. Ok you don't like to be hit with the harsh reality. That's fine. I won't waste any more time or energy, trying to explain the very obvious to you..

 

Until you sort yourself out you, will be posting here about failed relationships for years to come. You are getting angry at the wrong person...Take care

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Like I said, It was truly 11 weeks. I change it as Im certain I know.someone who reads theese. I appreciate any help you think you may be providing. I wish you well bud.

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I was walking downstairs and she saw me. I havent gone no contact yet. But Im thinking I will now. We had one bad arguement and she wont talk to me. Surely this means she just misses me?

 

 

You have to write it off as a weird coincidence. One of the first rules of NC is that if your Ex contacts you in any way, shape or form and she/he does come to you with, "I'm sorry. I made a huge mistake and I'll do anything to get back with you." Anything less than that is just breadcrumbs.

 

So, you just need to brush it off.

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Ya. Good point. She is pretty immature. But this could be a sign that nc is working?

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ex "drives by" and you call Mack a cyber stalker.

 

irony.

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Ya. Good point. She is pretty immature. But this could be a sign that nc is working?

NC is working if you are intending to get over her, and it is helping you to move on.

 

If you are using NC as a game to try to influence & maniuplate her, then you might as well just roll the dice and enjoy the drama.

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