lovers Posted May 28, 2012 Posted May 28, 2012 Its been a long road and recovery for me, I haven't spoken to her for a long time, hardly ever think about her, things are good with another girl for me, I feel like I have very little emotions towards her. It was really hard break up for me since i was emotionally invested in her. I hardly go on this forum anymore. I think the best word to describe how i feel towards her is I simply don't care lol. How do you guys feel towards your ex whom you were emotionally invested in?
Derevko Posted May 28, 2012 Posted May 28, 2012 I feel sorry for her. She was selfish, unwilling to compromise, finicky, and wasn't there for me at those big moments when I really needed her. And because of that, she missed out on a golden once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to be truly happy. I hope she has changed, for her sake. She has a ton of great qualities, but I can't imagine there's a good guy out there who would put up with those kinds of negatives for very long.
Gulf-Delta Posted May 28, 2012 Posted May 28, 2012 So many mixed emotions.... I love her. She was the best person I ever met. I hate her for stabbing me in the back after I gave her everything and saved her life. I miss her and the way she made me feel I feel sorry for her because of what she threw away. I feel sad because, even though she can find anyone to have "fun" with (she's very beautiful), at the end of the day, I don't tihnk anyone other than me loves her enough to put up with the issues she has.
january2011 Posted May 28, 2012 Posted May 28, 2012 I would hate for him to be hurt but otherwise, I don't really care. I've moved on and am with someone else, so the emotional investment I made has been transferred.
Derevko Posted May 28, 2012 Posted May 28, 2012 I would hate for him to be hurt but otherwise, I don't really care. I've moved on and am with someone else, so the emotional investment I made has been transferred. Transferred? Is that the way to do it? Just take what you felt for someone and move it to someone else. I don't know, I've always felt relationships should be built from the ground up.
gibson Posted May 28, 2012 Posted May 28, 2012 What's your guys thoughts on your ex? Glad I met her, enjoyed our time together, did some cool things, have a lot fond of the memories and like most everything in life... Things / experiences / people come and go and end. Onto the next great adventure!
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