dirt99 Posted May 28, 2012 Posted May 28, 2012 I was in a relationship an engaged for 7 years. We have a 6 year old boy. She left me and got her own apartment. I lover her so much but we grew apart and I was to dumb to relize it. I had some back problems and got addicted to pain killers. I would take em at night when they were sleeping and play videogames. I didn't have my priortys staight. Iwas a good dad and never verbely abused or put a hand on her. I always told her I loved her and was always there for her. She always bottles everything up and would argue a little. I have cleaned up and started taking care of myself and an giving her space. I want hher back and think I deseve a second chance. She says she still cares about me but she said she don't know if our relationship can be fixed ,but only time will tell . We had lots of fun camping and hanging out . I would let her go out with the girls and have fun ect. What shiud I do to get her back and get that second chance ? I don't wanna give up cause my son wants his family back and he says he's sad. I feel I messed up and owe it to him to have a whole family.?
Author dirt99 Posted May 28, 2012 Author Posted May 28, 2012 (edited) She felt we we not going anywhere an money was a big issue . I have changed my ways and im saving money. Talked to her today and told her thanx for braking it off cause I proly wouldn't b clean and sober . And told her Mabe we will b togather again somday an she say yea Mabe. Am i pushing her away doing those thangs? I turned into a mess when we where togather. And I feel a lot better but I don't wanna give up but, I have to let her go before I get her back ? It's been 5 weeks since she left and she goes out alot and partys . She got me a card from my son for my b day . I don't know what to do next. And we were not married we never talked about how to pay for it cause our parents were poor. I needed to step up and be a man. Im working out and going to counciling . Want my family back and a second chance cause I can still make her laugh an smile. And she didn't cheat on me and there no other man but she said she wasent getting in a serious relationship but she was goin to "hang out with other men ". I been going crazy on how to get her back please help. Edited May 28, 2012 by dirt99
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