Rachels_p Posted May 28, 2012 Posted May 28, 2012 How long do we reckon we should chase someone? My ex girlfriend broke up with me a month ago... I've been lead to do the usual begging and pleading etc... I know I did wrong by instigating bickering which I don't know why I did that! Anyway I am going to try no contact as from today as hard as its been on previous attempt but I'm scared this will create a bigger gap and she may think I'm no longer interested! I think at the minute she is telling me things so I will back down but I really doubt you can fall out of love with someone after a few days... can you? I'm so utterly in love with her I don't want to let her go! Help me pleeeeeeeease x
Author Rachels_p Posted May 28, 2012 Author Posted May 28, 2012 I instigated bickering during relationship but I don't know why I done that... inevitably she had enough and dumped me!
d'Arthez Posted May 28, 2012 Posted May 28, 2012 In the case of a breakup, it is pointless to chase your ex. It only pushes them away further and further. As for what is happening in her mind, you can't know, and she probably cannot express it herself either. Don't think for a moment she is not hurting. She probably is as well. That is why she is keeping her distance from you emotionally speaking. The best thing you can do is to stick to NC. It is better for the both of you. 1
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