xpaperxcutx Posted May 28, 2012 Posted May 28, 2012 Memorial weekend I got invited to go camping with my friend and his sister. This friend was someone I met last year on my brithday. A little about him he's 7 years older than I and this has only been the second time since we hung out. In the past we mostly texted back and forth. We have arranged a lot of get-togethers but ccircumstances always came up where we couldn't meet up. He's very social and flirtatius yet at the same time he knows his boundaries and doesn't go overboard. We have flirted in the past. We didn't flirt this weekend. There was another at the camp who caught his attention and half of the time he was either talking to her or staring at her. My opportunity to share any alone with him was limited even though we managed to share a couple of private laughs here and there. I'm kind of jealous. I know I don't have a right to be since the girl is a nice peson and she and her brother the friends they had came with were fun and chill people. We even exchanged numbers to have future gettogethers. The thing is I'm not sjure whether I should pursue anything with said guy. He is a very social person and while wecan talk and joke around i,m not getting any vibes that he's attracted to me. When he dropped me off today at home we hugged and he snuck a little ;peck in on my cheeks. But again nothing of intimacy implied although I was slightly surprised he pecked me. So what should I d? Shojuld I let this friend be a friend or should I make an effoprt to see if we develop anything?
mortensorchid Posted May 28, 2012 Posted May 28, 2012 How many days have gone by since you heard/saw him last after the camping weekend? I'd wait for him to contact you. If he hasn't within the first 24-48 hours, he'll be a friend but not a boyfriend.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted May 28, 2012 Author Posted May 28, 2012 How many days have gone by since you heard/saw him last after the camping weekend? I'd wait for him to contact you. If he hasn't within the first 24-48 hours, he'll be a friend but not a boyfriend. We don't really play 'tag' with each other. We text each other occasionally sometimes to say hi. There was a long period of two months where we just stopped talking. And he has contacted me to send me a picture of me ( sleeping in the car with my mouth open).
USMCHokie Posted May 28, 2012 Posted May 28, 2012 Sorry, but nothing I've read remotely suggests that he's looking for anything more than acquaintanceship with you...
Author xpaperxcutx Posted May 28, 2012 Author Posted May 28, 2012 Sorry, but nothing I've read remotely suggests that he's looking for anything more than acquaintanceship with you... Yep I thought so.
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