Who has their ex's passwords to things such as fb, email etc & checks up on them?

[Riss87]

Come on, be honest! I know I do and it's something I need to stop. I even told him that I check up on him so he would change his pw but he didnt end up doing it! Its not a healthy thing or the right thing to be doing but I cant help it!!!! Who has the same trouble?

[headsashed]

I had the same problem,up until a week or so ago,id asked her several times during our 2 break ups and she always said no she wouldnt change it and its my problem if i wanted to look,it was horrible because i did check a few times,now she has changed it since i found out she cheated. But tbh i havent had the urge this time.

[Joaquin]

Its a case of your damned if you do or damned if you dont.

 

I hated snooping but my intuition told me something wasnt right so i did snoop. Within a month my suspicions were confirmed. I don't regret snooping as I thought I was going mental. The truth confirmed I wasn't.

 

I had never snooped before in my life and I had to pinch myself to believe I was going down the snooping road.

 

I think if your bf or gf gives you just cause to snoop then it's acceptable as you have a right to protect yourself in a relationship. I would do it again if necessary but I hope to god it won't be as it's a horrible feeling doing it.

 

Obsessive snooping over an extended period of time would however become unhealthy for any relationship.

Edited May 26, 2012 by Joaquin