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Why did he contact me all of the sudden?

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My ex boyfriend (he broke up with me more than 2 months ago) sent me a message in facebook saying "(my name) how r u?" I replied, "I'm going on vacation in May 2nd. How r u?" He replied, "I'm fine. Thanks." I asked, "How's your job?" (He has a job working abroad) He didn't reply for a few days so I sent him another message, "Thanks for asking how I'm doing. It's nice that you remembered me. But you won't reply to my last message. But that's ok. I understand." He replied, "ok (my name)...im very sorry about what happenned.." I asked, "What happpened to that girl?" (He broke up with me because of another girl) He replied, "We broke up. We had a misunderstanding. Do you have a new boyfriend?" Why did he contact me all of the sudden? I replied, "I'm going on a trip." He asked, "Where r u going?" I told him I'm visiting relatives and staying in my aunts house (he lives in the same neighborhood as my relatives- that's how I met him. I met him 5 years ago when I was visiting my relatives. But he's not in his hometown right now because he's working abroad) It's been 2 weeks and he didn't reply anymore. Why didn't he reply?

 

He didn't reconcile with the other girl. She already has a new boyfriend. I saw her facebook yesterday.

 

If he doesn't reply for another 2 weeks- what if I send him a hatemail with curses? Then after that, I won't contact him again.

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Maybe he wants a second shot with you, or to be friends again or something.

 

He could be trying to use you, but only you and he could know that. If he had a habit of treating you like garbage, or you want nothing to do with him, then just blow it off.

 

If you still have feelings or wanna be friends, then talk to him.

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The male friend of my boyfriend approached me at a party and he said that while my boyfriend stayed with him in a boarding house in the city for a month- he always talked about me to him and the other guys. He bragged about me. (This was in October of last year. He didn't break up with me until March of this year.) Does that mean that my boyfriend really liked me and he wasn't using me?

 

He kept telling them that I'
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very pretty

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