Should I hang around hoping things will be different, or try to move on???

[Riss87]

I dated this guy for around a year. He then moved to another city but we were still together and saw each other on weekends. After a while he had doubts about our relationship and said he didnt want a gf and wanted to meet new ppl and make a new life in the new city. Having said that he would still ask me around and we continued to act like we were together even though we werent. It was really messing with my head knowing he could just run off and start dating some other chick, even though he hadnt for the whole year we were non officially seeing each other.

 

I brought up us getting back together a few times and he would say he was too young (23yrs) for that sort of commitment. He continues to act like he wants to be with me, but is too scared. Everyone who see's us together comments on how much he loves me and it makes it hard. Its a difficult situation because he tells me everyday he

thinks about us being together one day!!!! Its hard to know if I should hang around and wait and risk getting hurt by him never committing/finding another girl, or if I should just try to forget about him which hurts a great deal also!!!

 

What should I do? How do I go about forgetting him? We have tried the NC thing before but he always breaks it and sucks me back in!!! I need HELP

[Frank13]

He is too young to commit. He wants you as a back up plan or to fill his time until he find the "someone better" he is looking for.

 

NC is the answer but you have to find a way to block him so he can't suck you back in. Otherwise, he will sting you along until he finds someone else.