Freddys Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 Well, I was waiting all day long, but she didn't call me, no text either. Many people remembered my (very special) bday but the one I really wanted didn't. Although she knows my bday date, she decided not to wish me at all. Was a woman I was "dating" for months, I really liked her, but things didn't progress between us for various reasons. All these months she asked me for my bday date like a "hundred" times. I was really curious to see how she will "act" on my bday BUT I get a zero response. I was thinking to invite her to dinner, for my bday, but I wanted to see if she was going to "remember" me, so I didn't do it. The very sad (?) part of this story is, that we had a great talk via phone, some days earlier my bday, with her saying she was really happy to hear me again after so long. The only conclusion comes to my mind, is she kinda hates me. Is a woman under a very serious health issue, she is alone at the moment, her last guy dumped her because of her health (he didn't want a commitment with a woman in this "heavy" situation). My intentions with this woman were pretty clear and she knows it. I could be her man, I trully care about her no matter her health issue. What she was thinking with her desicion not to wish me at all (!?), nobody else before asked me so many times for my bday date like she did. I'm still really hurt, and I was wondering if I should "delete" her from my life totally, no answering her phonecalls, no coffee times, nothing. Why she did this on purpose?, While I was the only man (so far) in her life to express such intentions to her.
oaks Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 Why she did this on purpose? Why do you think you are so important to her that she would do this on purpose? Couldn't it just be a reflection of how interested she is in you (ie not very)?
Emilia Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 You sound quite self absorbed OP. You need to learn how to move on when someone isn't showing sufficient interest.
Author Freddys Posted May 25, 2012 Author Posted May 25, 2012 You sound quite self absorbed OP. You need to learn how to move on when someone isn't showing sufficient interest. Well when you have treated someone in such a good way, you expect just a simple response for your bday. Doesn't mean I wanted a "romantic" response from her side, I have already "moved on" . . .
ASG Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 I have been known to forget people's birthdays regularly. Even remembering them on the day, but not being able to call/text at that moment, and not remembering again until days later! I don't do it on purpose, it just happens. Also, you should treat people nicely and expect something in return. That is not how it works. Not only that, you have no relationship with this person. It doesn't matter why she didn't call, she didn't. She's not interested in you, otherwise you'd be together. Move on!
zengirl Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 You dated for awhile, you're not dating now, you're not particularly close friends. . . doesn't seem like hate to me, just not that important to her.
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