robaday Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 So youve had a one night stand with someone, it was great sex. You exchange all kinds of texts with that person over next few days-quite explicit. Your trying to play it cool, but inside your dying to see them. The first time she calls me at eleven Im in bed and miss the call. The next time we talk shes asking me advice on sex toys and that shes free all day. Im busy that day. So a couple days later I ask if she wants to meet later in the week, and then she says shed love to but is worried about having sex and thinks we should just be friends. WTF? is it because I maybe rejected her advances twice? or is she just a weirdo?
Emilia Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 It's the pressure of too much too soon. When I had what I thought would be a one night stand with someone I wanted to date, we arranged a no-pressure drinks-only, no sex date and it worked very well. I'd say take the steam out of it, tell her you enjoy her company and that you want to see her for a drink. It's possible that she is feeling she put herself out there too much straight away. Just try to get to know each other a bit before you jump into bed again. 1
dasein Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 Agree with emilia. She is likely having some buyer's remorse due to the ONS, not you personally. Have a nonsexual day date where you do something active, no grabby until the end of the date, kiss and then go home. Ask her out again a few days later. This should let her know you aren't just hit and run. One thing to remember though is that you don't know her well, she could be involved, etc. Use the day date to do some learning about her situation before assuming dating is a possibility. Good luck.
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