trippi1432 Posted May 28, 2012 Posted May 28, 2012 M30 - I don't support violence of any form regardless of gender; when either party has to enact violence or begins thinking about being violent back....simply, it's time to divorce. Nothing you do or don't do will change her. What I did say above was in response to you "supporting" the fact that she has a perspective too in response to my stating that you set a precedent to how she treats you. You say it doesn't matter who is right or wrong, but you are stuck on getting an apology from her for the assault. I wouldn't bother, I would start divorce proceedings and be done with it.
Author M30USA Posted May 28, 2012 Author Posted May 28, 2012 M30 - I don't support violence of any form regardless of gender; when either party has to enact violence or begins thinking about being violent back....simply, it's time to divorce. Nothing you do or don't do will change her. What I did say above was in response to you "supporting" the fact that she has a perspective too in response to my stating that you set a precedent to how she treats you. You say it doesn't matter who is right or wrong, but you are stuck on getting an apology from her for the assault. I wouldn't bother, I would start divorce proceedings and be done with it. The irony is that SHE filed for divorce within a few days of getting out of jail. It was recommended by her family because it "levelled the playing field" and took the attention off her domestic violence charge. That's what my lawyer said was her motivation. It also allowed her to attempt custody of the kids. Again, it's all tactics and strategy with her and her family. Instead of apologizing like she should, she develops a complex plan. Kind of sad.
14afreshstart Posted May 30, 2012 Posted May 30, 2012 this is a near and dear topic to me. divorced a year ago and still struggling and fear will struggle for the next decade. so with that, you all know that i am really bitter. - a marriage is simply said a commitment, - a commitment to commit yourself to your partner in life - i know things happen in life - once a commitment is made this should be it - if a couple goes in a marriage with divorce as an option then what do we expect - this is an instant gratification society - marriage is about perseverance, patience, commitment yes all above love as love usually fades i simply don't unfortunately believe anymore in marriage. i dated my ex for 2 years at which time i could do no wrong, i was God, Jesus who can walk on water, she drove me crazy of how much she loved me and wanted to marry me. i couldn't walk pass a jewlewry store without her pulling me in to get engaged the ring the commitment. and i took my time and made my decision my commitment was for life literaly til death do us apart. and what now, she's having her cake and eating it, dating already, matter of fact been talking to someone maybe cheating... all i got to say is WTF
Author M30USA Posted May 30, 2012 Author Posted May 30, 2012 this is a near and dear topic to me. divorced a year ago and still struggling and fear will struggle for the next decade. so with that, you all know that i am really bitter. - a marriage is simply said a commitment, - a commitment to commit yourself to your partner in life - i know things happen in life - once a commitment is made this should be it - if a couple goes in a marriage with divorce as an option then what do we expect - this is an instant gratification society - marriage is about perseverance, patience, commitment yes all above love as love usually fades i simply don't unfortunately believe anymore in marriage. i dated my ex for 2 years at which time i could do no wrong, i was God, Jesus who can walk on water, she drove me crazy of how much she loved me and wanted to marry me. i couldn't walk pass a jewlewry store without her pulling me in to get engaged the ring the commitment. and i took my time and made my decision my commitment was for life literaly til death do us apart. and what now, she's having her cake and eating it, dating already, matter of fact been talking to someone maybe cheating... all i got to say is WTF I hear you, brother. It's like this life was made for disillusionment.
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