TaraTot Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 I've been dating this guy for about a month now, everything was going well until I went over to his house and met his younger brother. It seemed like we instantly hit it off. I just don't know if he feels the same. I cannot stop thinking about him and smiling my face off. Yesterday, I went over and when the guy I'm seeing left the room, he was flipping rubber bands at me and we played catch. I know this sounds SO high school, but I'm seriously infatuated. We have the same sense of humor, whereas the guy I'm seeing just seems annoyed. Is this flirting or just friendliness, from a guy's POV? However, he doesn't seem to act much different when his brother is around. He still calls me nicknames around him but no flirting behavior. As soon as I started interacting with this guys brother, I knew I wasn't attracted to him like I was his younger brother.*A problem about this is I've already met their mom and dad and grandparents. What do I do about this? Keep in mind, this guy is not my boyfriend officially. We just hang out about 4 times a week, and no sex.I appreciate any feedback, just please help! Does he feel the same? Or just being friendly? Should I say something to him or just let it go?
Radu Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 Why don't we explore this scenario. You have a younger sister, and you start bringing your bf home. He meets your parents, relatives ... etc. But you discover he starts flirting with your younger sister and she flirts back. How would that make you feel ? I'll be frank about this. You have the golden opportunity to be known as the girl that made 2 brothers beat eachother silly or even kill eachother. Hope you enjoy it. 2
Chi townD Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 If you make a move on this, you are going to cause a lot of damage and hurt a lot of people.
udolipixie Posted May 26, 2012 Posted May 26, 2012 It seems like friendliness not flirting to me as there isn't any sexual innuendo, he doesn't change how he acts around his brother, and there's no indication or mention of him being attracted to you. The younger brother likely doesn't feel the same and is just being friendly to me it's like a gal being nice to a guy and he takes it as flirting and being interested in him because he likes her. As for what do you do about this I think you should just let it go and enjoy the friendliness as it seems to be a harmless crush. I know many gals who have had crushes on their boyfriend's younger sibling they simply check him out, masturbate to him, fantasize about him even during sex with the boyfriend and for them it passed. Sexual attraction to others usually don't stop when one is in a relationship it's likely your boyfriend has crushes on, checks out, fantasizes about, and masturbates to other gals frequently.
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