Should I just get it over with?

[Saraswati57]

I've been considering recently whether or not I should just hire a prostitute to get the deed over with, so I don't feel so inexperienced in the sexual realm. I was never really assertive with women, never asked them out on dates, never really made much effort to socialize with them in general, now I think that my experience level is too low to naturally lose my virginity. Thoughts? Is there anyone out there that has done this?

[Saraswati57]

Hmm...I guess my trend of creating uninteresting topics continues uninterrupted.

[Exit]

It might help get the actual deed taken care of but I don't see it as being much of a solution for the other problems you listed, not being assertive, not making an effort to socialize with women, etc. It might give you a small confidence boost to at least not feel totally inexperienced in the bedroom, but I don't see it creating a world of difference where all of a sudden you'll be able to go out and bring a woman home or start a relationship the regular way. You'll still be left needing to address the real problem, you're going to need to get comfortable going out there and meeting people, or at the very least trying to socialize with girls through your other friends or wherever you can meet them. So with that in mind, it's really your call. I don't see it as fixing much aside from putting the first notch in your belt. You will still have to face up to the other remaining issues. Your idea certainly wouldn't be a magic fix-all.

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Why don't you work on socializing with women?

 

As a woman, I can't look down on men for being virgins but I look down on men who are resigned and refuse to change themselves.

[Cracker Jack]

I don't think this is a good idea. It'd just be a temporary fix. You might actually feel worse. What you should focus on is exerting yourself around women more. Easier said than done, yes, but I believe you can do it. You just gotta really want it.