cincinnatikid Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 My question will come quickly. So, I found out through the grapevine that my now ex is dating a guy from the same department at work. Quite frankly, it hasn't really bothered me at all. My question is though, is it weird that I wish it works out for her in the long run? The reason I ask this question is because my philosophy has always been not to crap where you eat. I have known a few examples to the contrary but for the most part I've never heard of it to be a good idea. She was always career driven and successful. Even though I would never know, I would hate for her to be the target of derision or worse as a result. I'd love to hear peoples thoughts.
pteromom Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 My question is though, is it weird that I wish it works out for her in the long run? No, it's healthy. It means your feelings toward her have been completely resolved, so you feel nothing but to wish her well. The fact that you are wishing her well in a situation you don't necessarily agree with is healthy too. Means you are detached from the situation and not personally investing in it emotionally at all.
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