PoeticRose Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 i found out from a co-worker this guy in my department likes me. she told me he wanted to know if i had a boyfriend and that he thought i was cute. i was shocked cuz i didn't know he felt that way about me. So at work he'd always ask me if he could do a tattoo for me cuz he's a tattoo artist, he wanted me to hang with him on new years. Follow me after work. He knew i was very religious Christian girl but i'm also down to earth, so he still talked to me anyway. he'd always strike up a conversation with me at work. and im not a girl that throws myself on men, but if i like him i will let him subtly know (i flirt with my eyes). In other words im not easy, but i dont play hard to get either. So we went to mcdonalds on break together, he opened the door for me. he'd tell me things like if he gets a motorcycle he'll pick me up and we can drive along the lake. i just thought those things were romantic. he'd always stare at me until i look at him then hed look away. or id catch him staring at me and he'd do some corky face. I was in the break room talking to my friend and I caught him looking at me for a looooooooooooong time. And i just smiled and wave and he didn't do anything. he'd text me and showed me his drawings. and we'd talk about other cool things, life, family, school etc.... so then i find out he's quitting and moving to the suburbs. my friend invited him to her 21st bday for me cuz she wanted us to be together i guess(he couldnt come cuz he had already moved) and later i find out from her that he said he liked me, but its complicated cuz of the long distance and he felt bad for not being there because he wanted to be there. he also told her "its not like we can date now or anything".....and obviously my friend reported all that back to me. SHe also told me that he new i liked him because he could read it all over my face. but of course if a guy does all these things that gain my attention im gonna start liking him thats normal right???? our last convo at work was the usual, i made him laugh he made me laugh, then I had to clock out and everytime i'd leave he'd start up a new convo like he didn't want me to leave. Then he was like "ok i'll text u later". now, it was april 15th when he quit. and he NEVER talked to me again. after doing ALLLLL those things to lead me on making me feel like we WERE going to become bf/gf and just dropped me life i never existed in his life. Of course emotions are gonna run loose in my head. So I tried hard to let it go. I had his #, but i didnt wanna call him or text because i felt like it was his decision to move on and if he really wanted to talk to me he could've texted me. And im not one thats gonna chase a man. I felt like he lost interest or maybe didn't even like me to beging with or just wanted sex i dont know. So after weeks of trying to move on from him leaving me hanging. JUST recently MAY 20TH i contacted him cuz it was bothering me too much. "I texted hey our friendship ended kind of strange I hope everything is going good for u etc..." He wrote back reaaally fast. And we had a nearly 5 hour long convo over text about everything. And it was like equal discussion. Then he suddenly just stops texting and im thinking ok maybe he got tired and maybe he got busy. But now its been 4 days and he hasn't texted me since then. Plus the ball is in his court since i texted him first and the convo ended with me. Of course i'm going to move on, but what do you think of the entire situation given everything I said thanks.
CopingGal Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 now, it was april 15th when he quit. and he NEVER talked to me again. after doing ALLLLL those things to lead me on making me feel like we WERE going to become bf/gf and just dropped me life i never existed in his life. There's your red flag...right there.
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