RonChalant Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 "I enjoy knowing 125% that I won't be cheated on or lied too by him. He treats me like a queen and I am emotionally safe with him" How do you go from comments like that, then 10min later talking about how I am the only person she would cheat on him with and making dinner plans with me this weekend? Quick backstory.. we were together for 7 years, wasn't the beet relationship, lots of game playing and cheating going back and forth because we were both young and dumb. She finally called it quits 6 months ago and left me for someone she's messed with behind ny back multiple times before. On speaking terms again now, spoke shortly about how we've both never stopped thinking about each other, still obviously love each other and blah blah. Spoke shortly about getting back together, but after comments like the ones above, I could NEVER trust her. We've made plans to have dinner Saturday night where I'm going to tell her that for various reasons, I only want to have a physical relationship with her once or twice a month and be able to cuddle with her at night (haven't slept right since the breakup). Pretty confident she will agree to this FWB agreement. Personally I hate the guy, so f*cking his girl (my ex) every other week would make my damn day. Is it a good idea...I'm sure it isn't, but I love her, have a connection with her that can never be duplicated, and quite honestly yeah...I want to anger f*ck the sh*t out of her every now and then LMAO! Yea I'm a nut and she's got a few screws loose OBVIOUSLY...made for each other huh lol. What say you people...input please
oaks Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 If you still love her then the problem is that sex twice a month will stop you from moving on. On the other hand, good sex is good sex. Depends what you're looking for!
Ninjainpajamas Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 Sounds like you guys were meant for each other. I don't exclude scandalous treatment to men, but also women as well.. You guys are both jacked up people, years from now you'll look back at this craziness and wonder why you even did it...but this seems to be what its going to take for you both to grow up. She isn't into this guy and obviously has more emotions you than him...history trumps new "love", it happens all the time especially with long-term relationships...this is exactly why you shouldn't date someone fresh out of a relationship...you're either going to be a rebound or be with an emotionally unavailable and fked up person. But remember you reap what you sow...I get where you're coming from, emotionally, but it's not the right thing to do, it's not the right way to handle things....why are you insistent on going backwards than forwards? 7 years man and you're not tired and old enough for this bull****? To each it's own, just remember it's not going to be rainbows and flowers, you're voluntarily getting yourself into a another dramatic situation and you're both just look like fools. And I know you don't care about this guy, I mean why would you? he's the guy who was messing around behind your back...what better than to strike back at him right? But what you don't see, realize, or seem to care about is this just makes you what you've been for the last 7 years, a cheater, liar and less than respectable man..If that's what you want to be? At any rate, don't let me convince you...not that I think I could at this point, I think you got your sights locked in like a homing missle and it's already been launched but hopefully you'll reflect a little bit and ask yourself where this is going, and is this where you want your life to go and what you want to be...is this the kind of drama you're still interested in? What if she gets pregnant? what if he cheats on her you get a an STD like one big happy family? the three of you...now wouldn't that be karma! See ya on Maury Povich! Ron Chalant: "That kid don't look nothing like me, look at that nose! that ain't nothin like my nose, that kid is ugly...it ain't mine! I'm 1,000,000,000 percent positive!" Maury: "Ron Chalant....you are the father!" 3
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