seibert253 Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 So FWW and her BFF were avid running partners. BFF knows all about our M, our M issues, and FWW's A. BFF becomes a "training partner" with her soon to be OM. I used to be friends with OM, until he broke up one of my bud's M, because he was sleeping with my bud's XWW. OM is a real snake, (arn't they all). Last time I saw him I told him if he EVER contacted my FWW, he would disappear, never to be heard from again. So FWW knows about OM, and warns her BFF that having ANY involvement with OM is a bad idea. BFF's M is rocky at best. Anyway, BFF and OM start becoming close, going away to compete in running events, yada, yada. FWW sees where this is leading and cuts ties with BFF. I give my FWW major props for this because I didn't have to butt in. She cut off BFF all on her own. FWW's BFF becomes involved in an A with OM. BFF leaves her husband and moves in with OM. BFF makes repeated attempts to contact my FWW. FWW ignores all of these. BFF's BH gets angry, and gets his act together. Goes on the A diet, loses 30lbs, and starts tearing up the gym mad. Throws his profile on a couple of dating sites, and he's right back into the game. BFF seeing this and has her WTFHID moment. Begs BH to take her back, leaves OM and moves back home. R is going well for them. FWW re-establishes contact with her BFF, and is helping her through the R process. FWW just got a call from her BFF about the OM. Apparently after being dumped by BFF, he found another WW to pray on. On Monday, this WW's BH came home unexepectedly, and found OM with his WW. Sh#t hit the fan, and the OM got his azz handed to him by this BH. It ended with a gun pointed in OM's face, and a trip for him to the ER for various abrasions and contusions about the head and face area. I guess he's lucky he wasn't also suffering from a gunshot wound. When you least expect it, Bam, here comes the Karma bus. Who says God doesn't have a sense of humor. Peace, 5
Artie Lang Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 you mean, he caught them "in the act.?" NO SH*T, he's lucky!!! what happened to her(BFF)? that house is soiled now.
Author seibert253 Posted May 24, 2012 Author Posted May 24, 2012 Wasn't my FWW's BFF who OM was caught with. FWW's BFF kicked OM to the curb a month ago. Sorry if my post was a bit confusing. This was a 3rd WW who OM was boinking. Only took him a couple weeks to find another "victim". I don't know this latest couple so I can't comment on their situation. Yeap, if my FWW boinked her OM in our home, don't think that's recoverable. I'm bad enough with triggers, but for your home to be one, that sux.
Spark1111 Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 I personally cannot believe how people operate thinking they are either above the law or above getting caught. How arrogant is that? He is lucky he wasn't killed. The H would only be charged with manslaughter and out in 7. My friends in law enforcement say that jealousy, whether it be money, drugs, power, or of your man and your woman, is responsible for 85% of all homicides. People LOSE THEIR MINDS after discovering a spouse's betrayal. I hope this serial cheater learns his lesson. If not, he may wind up dead. That's a lesson learned permanently, and is more common then is represented on these boards where so many are convinced they will never be caught, 2
SomedayDig Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 I really hate acronyms.... Agreed. I would rather write out "wife" than refer to her as W. Or to refer to her affair as an A instead of writing it out. Seems trivial maybe, but I think it tends to minimize. To write out "wife" or "husband" takes a quarter of a second longer. Just thinkin... 2
Woggle Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 This guy is a dumbass. He could be charged with assault plus his wife can portray him as violent and unstable in divorce court. The best thing a man in this situation can do is be calm, get a good lawyer and plan his exist strategy. Reacting the way did will only hurt him.
2.50 a gallon Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 If he does get charged I hope he uses the heat of passion defense and I am selected as a jury man. I learned at an early age how to control my anger, but the day I caught my Ex kissing another man, the genie was out of the bottle. I have felt red hot anger before, but never nothing of this magnitude. For about the first five minutes I was totally out of control. Law or not law, I no longer cared about anything. Had there not been a chain link fence topped with razor wire I would have been at them. And they were only making out, I can only guess how out of control I would have been had I caught them naked and in my bed.
DuchessKaye Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 I was also googling while reading this thread. Trying to figure out what are the meanings of those acronyms...
d'Arthez Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 BFF = Best Female Friend / (or in highschool: Best Friend Forever) FWW = Former Wayward Wife BH = Betrayed Husband That is my guess. Too many acronyms though, make the whole thing unreadable. 1
bosunmate Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 I personally cannot believe how people operate thinking they are either above the law or above getting caught. How arrogant is that? He is lucky he wasn't killed. The H would only be charged with manslaughter and out in 7. My friends in law enforcement say that jealousy, whether it be money, drugs, power, or of your man and your woman, is responsible for 85% of all homicides. People LOSE THEIR MINDS after discovering a spouse's betrayal. I hope this serial cheater learns his lesson. If not, he may wind up dead. That's a lesson learned permanently, and is more common then is represented on these boards where so many are convinced they will never be caught, There is not a woman alive who is worth doing time for, who the hell wants to do 7 years in the joint.
Soul_Lost Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 My sister in law dated a guy in high school that went into the Army after they graduated. They drifted apart and soon split up and he met another girl and together they had a baby. They never got married but were living together and trying to raise their son. She was cheating on him with a guy that lived in a trailer park just a few blocks away. He saw them together, drove home and got his gun, then shot and killed them both and pistol whipped the guys buddy. He's now serving life in prison. This happened within months of my fWW telling me about her affair. I never had to say a word, she then knew the emotional rage that people are capable of when thrust into this type of situation. Emotions are tough to control sometimes.
bosunmate Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 My sister in law dated a guy in high school that went into the Army after they graduated. They drifted apart and soon split up and he met another girl and together they had a baby. They never got married but were living together and trying to raise their son. She was cheating on him with a guy that lived in a trailer park just a few blocks away. He saw them together, drove home and got his gun, then shot and killed them both and pistol whipped the guys buddy. He's now serving life in prison. This happened within months of my fWW telling me about her affair. I never had to say a word, she then knew the emotional rage that people are capable of when thrust into this type of situation. Emotions are tough to control sometimes. Like i said there isn't a woman alive worth going to jail over.... 1
Woggle Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 Like i said there isn't a woman alive worth going to jail over.... That is the truth. When I caught my ex in bed with another man I was angry but I collected myself and told her she would be served with papers as soon as possible and that is what I did. By stayin calm she exposed herself to be the person she truly is and I came out the winner. She is the one in jail now and I have my freedom. 2
bosunmate Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 That is the truth. When I caught my ex in bed with another man I was angry but I collected myself and told her she would be served with papers as soon as possible and that is what I did. By stayin calm she exposed herself to be the person she truly is and I came out the winner. She is the one in jail now and I have my freedom. Better her than you behind bars....
Woggle Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 Better her than you behind bars.... Yup. She tried to rob a Dunkin Donuts and pistol whipped the person behind the counter plus they found a ton of drugs in her car.
Steen719 Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 True story...my friend let a man, wife and 5 kids move in his basement whern they got thrown out of apartment. He fed this man's family for months. Friend's wife started boinking the other man (yep, that's right....the wife of the man who had "saved" his family from homelessness. They ended up living together and my friend came over one night to tell me that he was going to kill the OM...he knew where he worked...had a plan. He had been a sheriff, was still in law enforcement, a Vietnam vet...he had the gun, the know-how and a mad desire to do it that very night. But, he knew he was wrong or he never would have come over. We sat all night on my front porch and he didn't go. He went on to marry a wonderful woman..a mutual friend, who has been great to him. The XW is not happy, the OM died, I believe. I couldn't blame him for wanting to kill the stupid, ungrateful SOB, but he wasn't worth jail time and missing out on a great life. Life has a way of working it out most of the time. 3
SidLyon Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 Many years ago I worked with a man who was "popular with the ladies" as they say. One Monday morning he didn't come into work. Plastered all over the front page of the newspaper was the news that on the Saturday night a policemen had broken into his girlfriend's flat, had shot her lover (with his police gun) and then shot himself. My colleague died instantly and the policeman died a few days later.
Woggle Posted May 26, 2012 Posted May 26, 2012 These dumbass guys are ruining over some useless two timing cheaters who aren't worth anymore energy. Just drop her ass and ignore. When women like this don't have anymore hold over a man that is enough torture for them. It drives them completely crazy and throws their ego off. What good is it to go to jail or die over some two timing chick?
Frootloop Posted May 26, 2012 Posted May 26, 2012 Thanks for the stories! They *almost* make me feel like I'm normal!
freestyle Posted May 26, 2012 Posted May 26, 2012 You gotta wonder what's wrong with this guy's wiring that he has to pursue married women repeatedly. I almost wonder if it's more about "one-upping" another a man, than anything else.
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