Have you ever thought you fell out of love then realized you were wrong?

[Searchin81]

I am curios how often this happens to people..apart from my own situation.. I would love to hear a few stories of people who thought they fell out of love, told their partner they no longer wanted to be with them, then realized that they in fact did love them.. Can you really realize you love someone if you tell them your not in love with them anymore?

[Dark Phoenix]

Its happened to a lot of people, myself included. It happens more then people realize

 

There are songs made after this...

 

Is a good one that illustrates this

[gibson]

I have shared with you my story and I did exactly what you said with an Ex of mine.

 

Have read through all the various G.I.G.S. stuff posted here?

 

Within those threads and the main G.I.G.S. thread itself, you will read stories of people that were on the giving or receiving end of the "phenomenon" you are describing / asking about.

 

Since we are using music to describe things... Let me do the same but with my song choice, I will give you one from a G.I.G.S. Dumpee point of view (which you were searchin).

 

There are a lot people here on LS that are victims of G.I.G.S. Dumpers and what do G.I.G.S. Dumpers like to do?

 

That's right...

 

Drop a TON of breadcrumbs or tell you everything you want to hear, come back for a short time only to disappear again. No, this is not a one time event either. They usually do this multiple times and it can go on for years even.

 

Searchin, does women in the following song describe the things your Ex said and did after your break up? Did he do it several times? Did he do it for months or a year?

 

[MadSworthy]

It happened to me.

It sucked! I just wish I could turn back time!

[Searchin81]

Mads what did you do how did u finally realize u made a mistake?

[Searchin81]

has this happened to anyone else?

[cheekysmiles]

i'm convinced that love has to flat line at least once before it truly blossoms. that's just the honeymoon phase ending. unfortunately, as i stuck with her through this period, she didn't feel the same. my love plateaued as hers faded

 

bright side? at least i know she's a flake when times get rough. deal breaker revealed

[thecoolkid]

Yeah this happens very often...

 

Its called confusion.

[Searchin81]

How do you fix it.. I lost the only person i ever loved a few years ago.. and he is married now..he married his rebound very quick.. Its painful

[cheekysmiles]

unfortunately, you can't control how attracted someone is to you after the fact. you can however control how attractive you are to him/others

 

the reality is, he is married and you must let go. if he comes back one day, call it serendipity and go with the flow