water4150 Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 So theres this girl. Known for a while. During finals we got close b/c we were studying. After our last final we went to the bar with mutual friends and we gradually became closer and closer in terms of physical contact. I drove her home and we kissed a lot. Things were great that night! Few days later we met up at school b/c we had to take some kind of exam. After exam she drove me to my car (we parked in different places) and we hugged and kissed. When we both pulled out of the parking lot I was in front of her and we were making faces at each other. We blew kissy faces etc. I put my hands through the sun roof and made a heart shape with my fingers and she had a big smile. She made more kissy faces and other cute faces. Now during text she is completely different. I tried not to pressure her or constantly text her. We had at most 4 text messages a day or a very small convo. It feels as if she is some what distant in text messages. I didn't message her today. Tomorrow we're all meeting up at the bar again. I didn't offer to drive so it looks like shes driving herself unless she asks me. I want her to reach out to me if anything. What did I do now? Did I lose her interest? If so how do I get it back?
sid3 Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 Stop texting her so much. If you see her at the bar with your mutual friends, ask her out. You'll have your answer.
FryFish Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 quit pussy footing and just go for it... She likes you... You can blow your chances with her next month...
sid3 Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 quit pussy footing and just go for it... She likes you... You can blow your chances with her next month... That's actually some sage advice. The big secret really isn't that elusive, the guys dating types of girls they want are the ones that go after what they want and shake off rejection when and if it occurs.
Author water4150 Posted May 24, 2012 Author Posted May 24, 2012 Lol thanks. She is the opposite of my ex so I'm not really used to it. But she is more fun. I did lay low with the texting. And I'm trying to get used to that. I'm just used to being chased and hunted down...now the game is kind of reveresed so its throwing me off big time.
FryFish Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 **** that noise... Just call her and ask her out... Dont play stupid little games man.
Author water4150 Posted May 24, 2012 Author Posted May 24, 2012 Good point. I'll ask her out tonight. I'll Be seeing her at the bar with a group of my friends. Hope it all goes well!
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