sarang_hae_yo Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 I met this girl around my Sophomore year in high school. We both liked each other but we never dated, eventually my feelings started to fade towards her and I started to talk to her less. She then dated someone else and that was that. Fast forward to my Senior year of high school, I ask her to my prom date with no intentions of trying to "get at her," but just as a friendly date. But from that we started to get close, texting each other alot, and sharing feelings with each other. Eventually she confesses to me that she loves me... I tell her I love her too. I know, I know, it's kinda weird. Spring break starts and she was hinting at me that she wanted to be my girlfriend, so I went ahead and asked her if she wanted to be girlfriend blah blah blah and then I guess we were in a relationship. The thing was that we didn't get to see eachother or anything, but we simply just texted eachother because it was during Spring Break. She breaks up with about 4 days into the relationship because she feels as if we should just stay friends. We still went to prom together (which was awesome btw) and we still talk to each other quite a lot. I still had feelings for her, and I kept telling myself that I need to get away and forget her. Fast forward to today, we both graduated high school and now it's summer break. We still talk and she tells me that I'm her best guy friend and things like that. I get mixed signals because there are times where she would tell me that shes bored because she doesnt have a boyfriend etc etc or this one time she texted me the lyrics to Justin Bieber's boyfriend. Im kinda rushing this because i have to go asap... but what do you guys think i should do? I still have these feelings for her Many thanks
pink_sugar Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 It sounds like you have been friendzoned. My cousin actually brags about his girlfriends, but that's just it. They are his girl FRIENDS. He's that meek guy they feel they can go to just to have fun and for male advice. I always see them posting on his facebook saying they miss him and they feel comfortable around him etc etc but as a best friend, not boyfriend. How come she wanted you both to stay friends? Perhaps she didn't know you had feelings for her in that way? I would tell her how you feel and go with that, see how she feels.
Radu Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 I think she was still pining for her ex or wanted some other guy ... or something. Does it matter ? You are her non-sexual friend, do you want to be in this place ? You can take advantage of this you know. Just go with her on your arm at a few parties, it will boost your social status and try to hookup with some other girl. I have a feeling though that when you do this, she will start to get interested in you.
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