Come on Guys - Is it really that bad out there?

[thatoneguy1988]

Being a man who has not been out in the dating scene since before I was 20 years old (Now 36 years old). Is it really that bad where an average guy is not able to date an average girl?

 

Having read other threads - Why do you feel this way? Are you consistently being rejected by women of an equal plateau or do you have the fear of being rejected?

 

 

yea it really is, average girls will not date average men. its a real problem.

[AD1980]

For some of us yes..ive been rejected for the first 31 years of my life..Now my friend who just got out of a marriage is single and good lookign whenver i go out with him women flock to him while i try to make conversation and the only thing theyl talk to me about is if hes available..

[udolipixie]

yea it really is, average girls will not date average men. its a real problem.

 

Some average gals will not date average guys and vice versa. As well as some may be overrating themselves or overrating average for themselves and underrating average for others.

 

To me it's a real problem to those that think people are obligated to dole out sex and relationships to them or reciprocate attraction.

[Yamaha]

Average

Overrating

Underrating

 

 

Funny Stuff!!!!:bunny:

Whenever someone wants to know what's average they should ask your expert opinion.

[udolipixie]

Funny Stuff!!!!:bunny:

Whenever someone wants to know what's average they should ask your expert opinion.

 

Funnier stuff I never stated my opinion on what's average or suggested I was an expert.

 

While to me the average beauty standard is subjective there are people who overrate and underrate themselves usually from arrogance or low self-esteem/worth. As well as people who have overrated standards for themselves and underrated standards for others usually from high overestimated perception of themselves and high expectations of others.