pyroguy Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 There is some truth to the idea that women do look at men differently. There are numerous studies which have shown that women prefer one kind of man when they are ovulating and another kind when they are not. When ovlulating, and most likely to get pregnant, they prefer a man with more robust masculine features. When not ovulating, and not likely to get pregnant, they prefer a less masculine male. One kind of man to make the babies with, and another to raise them. I did not just make that up. Also notice the other ways that a womans hormonal state can change how she acts. The difference is mature women control these things with the thinking part of their brains and don't just go on hormones and instincts like a teenager. This ! they control it and don't do anything rash or foolish....or some do, but they definitely have that feeling. I've seen it and heard it. I hope it's not the norm years down the road.
MrNate 2.0 Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 Hm. If I had to choose between being bf material or a sex bomb, I'd choose the latter, every time.
quankanne Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 (edited) They swore they were empowered feminists. no ... they're were ignorant sluts. Because a *true* feminist respects her relationships, especially the one with her partner because she understands it's their differences that make that relationship unique. True feminism isn't about man-bashing or one-upping, but celebrating what is uniquely ours and sharing that gift in the best possible way with others. Hence my comment about them being ignorant and sluts. going to break your heart here with the 7-year-itch thing: It happens about every 6-7 years in a marriage, but that doesn't mean it has to be something bad ... it's about maturing and discovering a whole other facet to yourself and your relationship. The couples that make it understand that change naturally takes place as they and their relationship matures (nothing's stays the same in life unless you're dead), and what helps them through is knowing that no matter what they face, love is the foundation of their relationship. a friend and I talk about this a lot. His folks have been married 50-plus years, and he says that from time to time his mom will say something like, "I love that man dearly, but there are some mornings I just want to suffocate him before he wakes up." And it's true. Our human nature gets fed up with the dumbass little things we get subjected to, especially from the ones we love. But if you learn to separate those idiosyncracies that make up someone's personality from the love you feel for them, you move past that stage of wanting to kill or leave them much more easily than if you just focus on individual actions with no basis. I joke about wanting to pinch Mr. Q's head off at times because he frustrates me to no end, and I really do, but I also realize that being married to him is the grandest adventure I'll ever make in life, and that those moments of frustration are nothing in comparison. that is what you and your wife need to focus on, Woggle ~ building such a secure foundation that everything else pales because you're where you both want to be Edited May 23, 2012 by quankanne
udolipixie Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 7 year itch is caused 100% by females. they look at a hot man and want to have sex. females have the credibility of the catholic church which pushes morals and hides sex scandals at the same time. I highly doubt that's a statistic backed by studies, sruveys, or polls. Relationship itches is caused by both genders as guys often bemoan boring their sex life is, whine how the gal doesn't take care of herself like she used to, and shy away from committment due to the notion of being limited to having sex with one gal for a certain period of time. Looking at an attractive person you're sexually attracted to and wanting to have sex isn't a gender thing mutually exclusive to gals. Many guys tend to have wandering eyes, sexually fantasize about other gals, want to have sex with other gals, and masturbate to other gals while in a relationship.
threebyfate Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 Maybe we should just accept this as one kind of sexual orientation. People who cannot be attracted to people they respect or really truly like.I can't be attracted to anyone I don't respect or truly like.
xxoo Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 I can't be attracted to someone I don't like. I can be attracted to someone who isn't bf or husband material. But I very much doubt I could maintain a long term attraction to someone who is not bf or husband material. It would last as long as the lust. With a really quality man, it's lasted 20 years....and counting!
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