crazyaboutcrazy Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 Ex got bored a few months before we broke up and made a profile for me on a dating site, put up some dorky pics and wrote a dumb profile. Next thing she's contacting girls on there until she realised it costs money to email them hahaha. At the time I thought she was either testing me or just wacko, but now she's gone I decided to rewrite my profile and use a decent photo...next thing I know I get a bunch of women contacting me, interested in hanging out. I mentioned this to the ex and she tried to play it off but I could see that she was jealous and upset about the idea of me dating. A few days earlier I stayed on a friends couch after a big night and she called me in the morning, wanting to drop by my house. When I refused to say where I was, she got mad and hung up. Finally, when I mentioned I'd had a few girls interested in renting my spare room she reacted oddly. And yet she left me and wants to be 'friends'? Guess she thought I'd be on the sidelines forever, huh?
g450 Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 Wait, she put YOU on a ODS? That's nuts. Let me guess. She has a new man and did it to relieve some guilt right?
Author crazyaboutcrazy Posted May 24, 2012 Author Posted May 24, 2012 No, this is a couple of months before she moved out. No other man involved. Guess that's what you'd call a 'red flag'.....
g450 Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 It has to be. It's too obvious. She either has an OM or she has the desire to look for one.
Author crazyaboutcrazy Posted May 25, 2012 Author Posted May 25, 2012 She's generally fairly crazy at the best of times, so while that would be the logical explanation, logic has little use where her actions are involved. She moved out 3 months ago anyway so theres a good chance she's been looking for or has found someone else, but my point is that's it's funny how she's suddenly jealous of the idea of ME dating/sleeping with other women if she has no interest in being with me.
coltsfan1 Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 She's generally fairly crazy at the best of times, so while that would be the logical explanation, logic has little use where her actions are involved. She moved out 3 months ago anyway so theres a good chance she's been looking for or has found someone else, but my point is that's it's funny how she's suddenly jealous of the idea of ME dating/sleeping with other women if she has no interest in being with me. Hence your name, lol. If she has a guy or doesn't is not important, she is jealous cause she stills views you as hers. The best thing you can do is tell her to date, put her on the back burner and out your mind. Then YOU date as well, you only stop dating IF she comes back tells you that she made a bad choice, and then backs it up by her actions.
Author crazyaboutcrazy Posted May 25, 2012 Author Posted May 25, 2012 Hence your name, lol. If she has a guy or doesn't is not important, she is jealous cause she stills views you as hers. The best thing you can do is tell her to date, put her on the back burner and out your mind. Then YOU date as well, you only stop dating IF she comes back tells you that she made a bad choice, and then backs it up by her actions. Don't really understand the posessiveness though. Guess I never will. I've got two dates lined up so far for next week so that should help distract me. The only problem is there aren't many who can hold a candle to her in terms of looks...but that's always the way it goes with these situations.
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