Hereiam007 Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 My ex and I broke up many times. I did most of the. We were close to 2 years. Today, she changed her number. She found another person. The thing is. She cheated on me with another girl, although we talked about it. She left me in the middle of the night to have her encounter. Now, she was sexting a friend of hers when we were trying to make it work. This is the person who she is now with. I saw many red flags And I guess she saw many red flags. I have no children. She has 3 with 3 different marriages. All the time I was with her, I was doin a lot of chores, and I lost my freedom taking care of her children. I was living in her house. I guess I just feel guilty that I put her through this pain. I don't plan on contacting her, but I really do wish her peace and myself peace. We just couldn't make it work. I also feel sort of betrayed because she was telling me she wants to work it out and at the same time, flirting with guys and girls. I just need to vent. My family says to move on for the longest time to me. We also had a 1 hour long distant relationship. I do feel the reality of her gone now. I guess I am puzzled by true love and moving on. If it is meant to be, then why did we break up? I guess I just want my conscious cleared for any wrong in this on my part. What do I do to clear this up? Do I send her an apology letter, but not asking for her back. Saying: I wish u the best and I thank you for making me into a better person. I hope u received the courage and confidence u wanted in the relationship. No need to contact me as we are both going into a new phase in our life.
Art_Critic Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 Listen to your family and do not contact her. She is with someone else and any letter you write at this point will come across as desperate no matter how you write it, since she moved on she will view any letter thru own own filter and it won't match your filter. Sorry.. time to put this one down for good and find someone else.
Author Hereiam007 Posted May 23, 2012 Author Posted May 23, 2012 Thanks. I don't plan to contact her. Is this natural for a single guy to date a mother of 3 children. What iswrongwith that? I know she always put her children before me. I guess I must have low self esteem.
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