PhillyDude Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 after we exchanged 9 messages "it maybe kind of tough for me to talk on the phone the next couple of weeks because I'm finishing up work right now and working later days. After memorial day I should have some time. Maybe we can figure out something then if that works for you. I only work 10 months a year and the drawback is you have to fit everything into those 10 months and my last day is June 15th" So she has time to send messages but not talk on the phone? LOL
LittlePrince Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 after we exchanged 9 messages "it maybe kind of tough for me to talk on the phone the next couple of weeks because I'm finishing up work right now and working later days. After memorial day I should have some time. Maybe we can figure out something then if that works for you. I only work 10 months a year and the drawback is you have to fit everything into those 10 months and my last day is June 15th" So she has time to send messages but not talk on the phone? LOL She obviously has a guy for memorial day weekend and doesn't want to mess that up.
Author PhillyDude Posted May 23, 2012 Author Posted May 23, 2012 She obviously has a guy for memorial day weekend and doesn't want to mess that up. But what does memorial day have to do with me getting her number? Today is Tuesday and I asked to chat not meet
sid3 Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 (edited) So what, she has a job and is busy for a few days. Edited May 23, 2012 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
persevere Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 Maybe she has a guy staying with her? Or will be visiting soon. She doesn't want someone calling her while the super jealous guy is around? Or, she could be just politely blowing you off. True. You get a text, but no 10 minute phone call? Reminds me of the gal I asked out last January who told me she was busy planning an event...that was in March. Bah.
Author PhillyDude Posted May 23, 2012 Author Posted May 23, 2012 (edited) So what, she has a job and is busy for a few days. then she shouldn't be on the line Edited May 23, 2012 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Author PhillyDude Posted May 23, 2012 Author Posted May 23, 2012 Maybe she has a guy staying with her? Or will be visiting soon. She doesn't want someone calling her while the super jealous guy is around? Or, she could be just politely blowing you off. True. You get a text, but no 10 minute phone call? Reminds me of the gal I asked out last January who told me she was busy planning an event...that was in March. Bah. I never had her number we just exchanged messages
persevere Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 I never had her number we just exchanged messages Oh yeah. Just internet messages. What I meant was, she doesn't want you to have her number until after jealous guy? goes away, or whatever it is. There is also the chance she is just really working late and doesn't want to talk on the phone after a long day. Which is a no go, as I believe if you like someone there will always be time. Some kind of game going on here...
Author PhillyDude Posted May 23, 2012 Author Posted May 23, 2012 Its a game, dont even play it. Why do you think it's a game?
Eddie Edirol Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 She wants you to stop talking to her until after june 15th, and then when you reach out to her she will ignore you. 2
Author PhillyDude Posted May 23, 2012 Author Posted May 23, 2012 She's politely telling you she's not interested. Well that means she is slightly retarded when she could have ignored me and blocked me.
LittlePrince Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 She's politely telling you she's not interested. If she was then she would just say it. She prefers to play games and there is nothing polite about that.
crazylove Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 If she was then she would just say it. She prefers to play games and there is nothing polite about that. I don't agree with that. There's no game playing. Giving her his number if she wasn't interested would be game playing.
LittlePrince Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 I don't agree with that. There's no game playing. Giving her his number if she wasn't interested would be game playing. Anytime one isn't straight with another they are playing a game. 1
Author PhillyDude Posted May 23, 2012 Author Posted May 23, 2012 well I went back to check the message history and I saw that I asked what her name was and she never told me-lol I didn't catch it at the time but noticed tonight. Again why exchange messages back and forth if you don't want to chat on the phone? I'm going back to telephone dating
crazylove Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 Disagree again. Some people have difficulty in letting people down and therefore politely give an excuse as to why they can't be contacted/have time to talk, etc. I don't think it's 'game playing'....that implies that she's leading him on. She's not...she's telling him she's not interested politely. Take the hint!
crazylove Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 well I went back to check the message history and I saw that I asked what her name was and she never told me-lol I didn't catch it at the time but noticed tonight. Again why exchange messages back and forth if you don't want to chat on the phone? I'm going back to telephone dating I think some women feel more comfortable getting to know someone behind a screen so to speak. That's why she messaged you, to see if she'd like to take if further...or not. Maybe she's shy, and takes a while to get to know people.
LittlePrince Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 well I went back to check the message history and I saw that I asked what her name was and she never told me-lol I didn't catch it at the time but noticed tonight. Again why exchange messages back and forth if you don't want to chat on the phone? I'm going back to telephone dating You should go back to face to face dating. If she doesn't want to meet in person then she doesn't exist. 1
LittlePrince Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 Disagree again. Some people have difficulty in letting people down and therefore politely give an excuse as to why they can't be contacted/have time to talk, etc. I don't think it's 'game playing'....that implies that she's leading him on. She's not...she's telling him she's not interested politely. Take the hint! She is leading him on if her reasons are false and therefore lies. None of this is polite or proper unless she is being completely truthful. 1
LittlePrince Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 That's your opinion and you're entitled to it. Telling a falsehood with the intention to deceive is a lie. That's not an opinion. That's a fact. 1
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 Who cares? She is no match for you, that's for sure, with your compulsion / obsession about phone calls. 2
Mrlonelyone Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 There exist seasonal jobs which end their season right about now. The end of the season in such work is a time when starting new relationships of any kind is hard. It could be that she's trying to line up something for when her work is done and is being totally honest. The way to know would be to ask her about her work. Nothing specific just ask her what she does. It would also be a way of showing some real interest in what her life is like.
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