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Hi all,

 

So I have been getting to know a man who I really like and who I think likes me. We have only really started to get to know each other, hanging out and talking through facebook, texts etc

I just have one red flag and that is texting back whether at all or in a timely fashion.

 

What are your views on a man texting back?

 

I know from experience that when he does not text back at all, not to text again or wait around until he does decide (decide being the word) to reply.

 

My problem is I used to let the guy get away with it not replying and in doing so just pushing myself into a frenzy of does he likes me or not mode. When in reality these guys just wanted me for one thing and NOT a relationship.

 

When it comes to the new man, it makes me wonder if he fully into the whole thing as he sometimes just does not reply after a few texts or if he does is a few hours late (understandable, people are busy) but I don't want to fall into trap of becoming the chaser when we aren't even going out with each other yet. Or if we even have a relationship in the future.

 

Is this a red flag? Or am I thinking too much into it!

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