Citylights Posted May 22, 2012 Posted May 22, 2012 I am very sad, angry and confused while i am going through one of my most hurtful break ups...I feel like my ex and I never had a chance to make things work because of the couples therapist that was supposed to help us make our relationship better but it totaly backfired. My ex had created a bad environment with the therapist bc he went behind my back to her in the begining stages of our couples counceling and I was very upset by that and expressed it during one of the sessions. So, we continued seeing her together and him alone also for individual therapy to help with some issues. Everytime we left her office I felt overal negative feeling & as we were set back. Last thursday I decided enough was enough and I packed 3 suitcases and left - telling him its over and requested NC ( I was beyond hurt and in shock). I am still hurting especially after I humiliated myself by texting him and telling him I was hurt, sad and wanted to talk on the phone. He texted me couple of times during the weekend while working but didn't call. So on monday I get a text saying he has had time to think and he will write later but not to call or text him because he doesn't want me or him to hurt anymore than we already do. This is a text that he sent after seeing the therapist on Monday - I am sure of it bc it doesn't sound like him. I am very sad, angry and hurt - I have not called or texted him back of course but I am beyond dissapointed with him and the way he is acting. Someone please advice me on how to proceed?? Is there anything I CAN do? Not sure if I even want him to write me. Its not gonna be coming from his heart anyway
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