ascendotum Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 (edited) You have received solid advice here from the others, but I just want to pipe in regarding a couple of comments you made.. Yes, I broke up with him because he REALLY hurt me. I felt like he didn't care about me - which is why I can't fathom that he would care enough about the break up to not invite me to his party, when we had been so close I didn't see the exact circumstances but he may have been a bit clueless as to the impact he had on you with his actions, not realising what he did was going to hurt you so much, and now you have dumped him, it caught him out and now his feelings are stinging from it. As for his distant ex attending, well time heals wounds + maybe he broke up with her and not the other way around. Essentially that's like saying "I like you too much to be with you." How could he possibly be so hurt by that A lot of guys are going to think thats a BS line, to make it seem like getting dumped is not so bad. Kind of like being told, 'its not you, its me, your'e such a great guy I don't deserve you' when getting dumped. Edited May 24, 2012 by ascendotum
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