ascendotum Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 I have a friend that has that problem as well. Kids father is laxed and spoils them. They get deprogrammed and turn into dissrespectful turds when they are with him and have to be trained by their other father when they get home to mom. Could not even imagine having to go through that crap several times a month. Sheesh! Lucky for me my Fiancees ex is a total loser that spends almost zero time with his Son. ^ Being the live in bf in that siutation would be really trying. I think this woman is being a bit harsh on you. She marries a boozer and a druggie and tells you off for not loving her son enough, and you have been with her for less then a year. I'd be annoyed too. Most single mothers I find tend to be cautious about introducing new bf's into their children's lives, and some can even take up to 6 mths before they let them meet the kids, and then they are strictly kept in a role of 'mom's bf' until there is a long term commitment. I'd be a little uncomfortable being expected to be the new father figure to a family with issues that I'd only known for less than a year.
Balzac Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 (edited) ^ Being the live in bf in that siutation would be really trying. I think this woman is being a bit harsh on you. She marries a boozer and a druggie and tells you off for not loving her son enough, and you have been with her for less then a year. I'd be annoyed too. Most single mothers I find tend to be cautious about introducing new bf's into their children's lives, and some can even take up to 6 mths before they let them meet the kids, and then they are strictly kept in a role of 'mom's bf' until there is a long term commitment. I'd be a little uncomfortable being expected to be the new father figure to a family with issues that I'd only known for less than a year. OP's post #3 offers a bit more detail. Not disagreeing with much of your comment. For OP who, what, why, when is water over the dam at this point. What looms is the unrealistic expectations and demands of the GF. Edited May 23, 2012 by Balzac Typo
ascendotum Posted May 23, 2012 Posted May 23, 2012 OP's post #3 offers a bit more detail. Not disagreeing with much of your comment. For OP who, what, why, when is water over the dam at this point. What looms is the unrealistic expectations and demands of the GF. Yeah I did scroll down past it, and it did add a different perspective to the situation. Hopefully the break will make her realise decent commited family orientated guys for single moms, are not exactly thick on the ground.
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