mosby Posted May 22, 2012 Posted May 22, 2012 My ex girl. broke up with me 8 months ago. After some attempts of me to get back together with her, i finally decided i should stop contacting her and move on. Although i am not completely over her yet ,things are better for me now. We do not keep contact exempt some birthday wishes from her behalf. all these until last weekend THe thing is i saw her few days ago on the street. She was with her friends . We had a short conversation and although she wanted to catch up i said politely no and left. It was obvious to her that i didn't wanted. She texted me the other day that she wanted to know if I'm ok because she had a bad dream about me and was very upset. whats the purpose of a message like that one after all this time, telling me she saw me on her sleep?? thanks a lot
TaraMaiden Posted May 22, 2012 Posted May 22, 2012 It's BS. She's just trying to use a "I really care about you, honest" ploy to get you to appease her feelings. could I suggest you read the Caliguy No Contact guide in my signature, because everything you're asking, is answered there.
Reddice Posted May 22, 2012 Posted May 22, 2012 She's feeling guilty for how she treated you, certainly after the way you brushed her off on the street. Her subconscious is now playing tricks on her. She can't stand the fact that there is somebody in this world who does not like her. It's a breadcrump, so don't fall for it. You know you're not completely over her, so don't let her drag you back down.
Author mosby Posted May 22, 2012 Author Posted May 22, 2012 I answered her that although i want her to be ok and happy i don't want we to have any kind of contact ,that it isn't fair for the new people in her life (that she's contacting me) and that this text had no meaning. She said that she has none in her life who would not be happy with that , but she understands my decision and that i did well "putting her on her place". Don't know if i did well ,cause I'm still hurting but thats what i spontaneously answered.
iJay Posted May 22, 2012 Posted May 22, 2012 I think you did the right thing mosby. Any farther contacts with her will only end up bringing back old feelings. You've already began your journey to move on. I know it isn't easy, but hang in there!
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