Come on people, you mean to tell me nobody here is friends with their ex!! Tell me!

[meanttolive4ever]

right after me n my ex broke up he was saying that he wanted to be friends...i was like i guess...but i mean we dont hang out or anything and we dont talk that much..i guess you can say we arent friends anymore

[lilian]

of course it is possible but also quite painful for the new partner to see them still together and hanging out. I have big problems with my boyfriend still friends with two of his ex's and it really hurts me!

[Steven725]

I'd never date a girl thats close friends with her ex. Why? Because I wouldn't trust a girl that would allow me to do the same with a ex girlfriend. Its about loyalty in my opinion, not jealousy.

[kelsi111]

Well, it can be very hard. I have 4 exes and 3 guys that I sort of dated. The 3 and I don't talk because we never developed a strong friendship. The guy I dated for almost two years and I are sort of friends. We talk some. We've hung out a few times, but there are no feelings left and we had to wait until that point. The guy after him and I are great friends, but then again he lives in Australia so we never see eachother. We used to email everyday. The guy after him and I are sort of friends. And my newest ex...well, he hates me so I don't think we will be. Just sort of depends I guess.

 

My friend Katie set me up with her ex! They are great friends and get along wonderfully. They were together for 2 years, were eachother's "firsts" and had planned on getting married. According to Katie it was hard to keep the friendship, but it is possible.