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Best way and time to follow-up after a first date?


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I'm curious what most people think is the best time frame to follow-up with a girl if you want to go out with them again after a first date - assuming you didn't set it up at the end of the first date...so it's coming kind of blind.

 

Do you contact them the next day, two days later - or wait even more?

 

Next - what's the best way to follow-up with them. Call, e-mail, text?

 

Third - any need to have substantial contact between dates (phone calls, etc.), or should you just dive in with date 2 or 3, without much interaction between?

 

I have my own favorite routine - which kind of works, although it could certainly be better. I'm curious to know what people generally do (what do the guys do, and what do the ladies like) - so I can mix things up a bit. My fear is that I frequently come off as not interested enough - I routinely wait 2-4 days to follow-up, and usually won't follow-up on a Friday or Saturday...sometimes I call, some times I e-mail.

 

Any thoughts are very much welcomed. Thanks!

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