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So I kept my cool. stayed NC for a month and a half, got myself better. During that time, she harrassed me into talking to her. I said I would when I was ready.

 

We exchanged a lot of texts, v friendly, some v flirty. her initiating. so i asked if we could meet, and then we got into major argument. her criticising me, saying i got what i wanted from the break-up. me telling her she had no right.

 

guess its a complete headfxxk, she told me it was over, then has consistently criticised me since, while saying she misses me and is confused.

 

finally, i just said, im not comfortable being friends, and left it at that. man i should have stayed NC

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Don't beat yourself up about it you live and learn.

 

Just remember how it feels and use it as your motivation to remain NC.

 

Keep Strong

 

xx

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she says shes confused and her actions show that - harrassing me, then sending dirty messages then saying she misses me. I just asked for a drink, and bang, shes gone again.

 

whereas, i was doing well untili got sucked back itno the drama.

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