MissBrunette84 Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 I wish these PMs would work lol, I'm in a really blunt mood today so I'm gonna go work lol before someone bitch slaps me through the screen haha
ladyabstrused Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 I wish these PMs would work lol, I'm in a really blunt mood today so I'm gonna go work lol before someone bitch slaps me through the screen haha Aww why would anyone do that??
kindest Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 (edited) Yeah don't respond to it. Been there. My ex after about two months of NC messaged me with: "I didn't expect that at this time all our friends already know about our breakup." What the heck was that for... and what did he expect? Of course our friends would all notice. I wanted to scream, "So what if they know? You broke up with me, remember?" God, it was staring at me right at the face. I ignored it at first. But I gave in, hook, line, and sinker. For the past month we're back to talking but only through IM and about 2-3x a week. I find out he's dating and I feel worse than ever. Now I realize I have to cut all contact again, and I'm back at step 1. It feels like our breakup all over again. So having been through that experience, please don't make the same mistake I did. Edited May 24, 2012 by kindest
Tiera D Posted May 24, 2012 Posted May 24, 2012 i occasionally wanted to text my ex how are u,but decided against it,dont want ruin my current relationship,ex dumped me by the way ..dont trust people whenever they ask u to wait them,its a lie TD
Author Tree_Salmon Posted May 24, 2012 Author Posted May 24, 2012 I wish these PMs would work lol, I'm in a really blunt mood today so I'm gonna go work lol before someone bitch slaps me through the screen haha Hang in there.
Author Tree_Salmon Posted May 24, 2012 Author Posted May 24, 2012 (edited) So I received another message. It was a quick "how fun" addition to the already previous two. I don't get any of it. Doesn't make sense. It's like shes angry that i'm not responding a certain way. I'm stumped. Either tell me you love me or don't talk to me at all. That's my attitude. Edited May 24, 2012 by Tree_Salmon
ladyabstrused Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 I guess it's cos things are not going as well as she wants things to be. She's probably just frustrated because she's suffering on her side and probably feels that you're doing better without her. You totally deserve better, Tree. 1
Author Tree_Salmon Posted May 25, 2012 Author Posted May 25, 2012 This can only go on for so long before she gets attached to this new situation. If shes not attached already. I give it another week or two and I'll probably never hear from her again. It's very sad to think about it. But what am I going to do. Love is a giant anus. 1
ladyabstrused Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 This can only go on for so long before she gets attached to this new situation. If shes not attached already. I give it another week or two and I'll probably never hear from her again. It's very sad to think about it. But what am I going to do. Love is a giant anus. I feel you.
Author Tree_Salmon Posted May 25, 2012 Author Posted May 25, 2012 I guess shes turning this up a notch because I'm not responding. She's got pictures up now. I completely erased my account there so i wouldn't see them. Sucks
jrock4 Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 yea she is trying to get to you, cause ur not responding...funny my ex contacted me a month and a day of NC through a blocked call, i answered she was a drunk sloppy mess driving, so i met her and drove her home safely we had sex and she tells me a whole bunch of bs shes been doing the few weeks we have been apart... some dude text her at 6am it woke me up i leave she was still sleeping... havent herd form her again for 2 weeks, and i get blocked calls sun mon and tue to which i didnt answer any of them. my story is kinda like urs. 1
Author Tree_Salmon Posted May 25, 2012 Author Posted May 25, 2012 yea she is trying to get to you, cause ur not responding...funny my ex contacted me a month and a day of NC through a blocked call, i answered she was a drunk sloppy mess driving, so i met her and drove her home safely we had sex and she tells me a whole bunch of bs shes been doing the few weeks we have been apart... some dude text her at 6am it woke me up i leave she was still sleeping... havent herd form her again for 2 weeks, and i get blocked calls sun mon and tue to which i didnt answer any of them. my story is kinda like urs. I went through that a few times ago. This time she just seems like she wants to stick the knife in me and turn it. I wonder what will happen next? I'm hoping for a drunk call. Entertainment.
jrock4 Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 oh yea it was some good entertainment till her drunk ass tells me a bunch of bs...that she has hooked up with another guy a few days before.
Author Tree_Salmon Posted May 25, 2012 Author Posted May 25, 2012 oh yea it was some good entertainment till her drunk ass tells me a bunch of bs...that she has hooked up with another guy a few days before. What do you expect now?
jrock4 Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 nothing im not contacting her...she obviously blocked called me sun mon and tue to hook up, I didnt answer. shes a freak so trust me it was hard not to answer but I didnt. lol
Author Tree_Salmon Posted May 25, 2012 Author Posted May 25, 2012 I know that all too well. Why do people love to play these sick games? I don't care for them at all. Seems to draw people to me because I don't care about their bulls*&t. I can't wait for the drunk texts/calls.
jrock4 Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 dude this girl is a trip, one day says all this crap I love u so much, u can trust me i want to be with u forever...then 3 days later has her ex pic her up at the airport...and her phone is turned off, tells me it was dead yea ok....she's a nut with that iphone always on the charger didnt believe her at all swears on her daughters life her dad picked her up.... has my whole family come to her parents for easter etc... then admits to me a few days later her ex picked her up and she is still talking to him, and then blames me that she contacted him, because i wouldnt pick her up at the airport....her flight came in at 1220 and i get up for work at 5am...so i said to her if ur dad cant pick u up then i will...
Author Tree_Salmon Posted May 25, 2012 Author Posted May 25, 2012 dude this girl is a trip, one day says all this crap I love u so much, u can trust me i want to be with u forever...then 3 days later has her ex pic her up at the airport...and her phone is turned off, tells me it was dead yea ok....she's a nut with that iphone always on the charger didnt believe her at all swears on her daughters life her dad picked her up.... has my whole family come to her parents for easter etc... then admits to me a few days later her ex picked her up and she is still talking to him, and then blames me that she contacted him, because i wouldnt pick her up at the airport....her flight came in at 1220 and i get up for work at 5am...so i said to her if ur dad cant pick u up then i will... Yeah I've heard some hilarious stories from liars. I don't stand for that crap though. Just ignore her from now on. Shes a leech. She needs your emotional energy to survive.
jrock4 Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 yea im not answering anymore of her blocked calls...go fck ur ex and the other guy ur seeing now.
Author Tree_Salmon Posted May 25, 2012 Author Posted May 25, 2012 yea im not answering anymore of her blocked calls...go fck ur ex and the other guy ur seeing now. People are only as faithful as their options. Sadly when you deal with people who have no integrity this is how it happens.
Author Tree_Salmon Posted May 25, 2012 Author Posted May 25, 2012 Agreed!!!!!!!!!!! Now that we got that out of the way...What do you think her next move will be? This could be like a drinking game. We watch and see her next move. Quick engagement? Drunk Text? Pregnancy? How is she going to "get to me"?
jrock4 Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 LOL, I know right...well it seems mine drunk calls me latenight when i guess the other guys r not around, not sure... U havent herd anything since the pictures? does she know u deactivated the fb acct?
Author Tree_Salmon Posted May 25, 2012 Author Posted May 25, 2012 LOL, I know right...well it seems mine drunk calls me latenight when i guess the other guys r not around, not sure... U havent herd anything since the pictures? does she know u deactivated the fb acct? Well FB was never the issues. Shes been blocked there for a long time. A ton of other places too. This was an old messenger I never disconnected. Any place that's private and I may not have blocked her I guess. She's good. She knows. It's sad. All she has to do is show up at my place and be honest. It really is that easy. A mature person would do that.
jrock4 Posted May 25, 2012 Posted May 25, 2012 Oh ok for some reason I assumed she put the pics on FB...yea all they have to do is be honest, seems there into playing games to much and mine getting retarded drunk everynight.
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