striker12 Posted May 21, 2012 Posted May 21, 2012 []Well some of you may have read my story, my ex broke up with me in feb. BecauseI wasn’t showing her the same feelings any more. So I was reluctant to let hergo I made all the mistake begging etc. The day I gave up. She text me sayingshe had been crying etc. So we had a talk We later found out she has been accepted onto a course and moves inSeptember so be both flapped and rushed back into it to try and "fix"it. The first four weeks were great (honey moon period) But I out 110% into itthis time but unfortunately she was very cold and when I brought it up she saidit’s just not the same. So I accepted the next breakup and walked away. Thenext day she turned up were I was with my friends like the same club I was verydrunk ha! and we ended up talking and I said id ring her on the Sunday. I didring her and told her its time for me to let her go it’s the brave thing to doand although ill miss her right to do. she said to me " You sound reallywell" I just replied yep gota be honest with yourself before I can be honestwith anyone else. Well I hadn’t heard from her for say 4-5 days and I text her stupidly saying"hope your ok" she replied with saying "yes imp fine thanks:)" the convo went on for abit and when it died shed ask me a questionlike "do you have my hoody" id reply yes I do. I was expected her toask if she could have it but no mention of it just asked me more questions whatI’d been up to ]Anyway I let the convo disappear for abit. I hadn’t heard for her about aweek and it was bank holiday here so it was another night out. I found out shehad taken my cousins out so I wasn’t happy with my antie! but anyway. I saw heron the night out. Her friends are normally horrible to me but they were nice tome. I walked straight up to her and asked her "hi are you ok" she repliedI asked her friends to the replied. "she was keen to get info out me but Ikept it short n sweet and said. "sorry girls I’ve gota get back to myfreinds now see you around". 10 minutes later she was up checking who I was out with I made a joke and went "are you stalking me" I got thereply "no im an independent women now" I was like tokay and turnedaway. She proceeded to following me around for the whole night. but I just ignoredher and had a good time with my friends and just smiled at her. I think she wasgetting abet jealous of me dancing with girls who I work with but there was nointention to make her jealous because they are my friends. Anyway I rang her on the Monday and said right I wan come and drop yourstuff off and she said "im in no rush for it ill jsut get it off you thenext time I see you im to busy this week." I offered to drop it of and shesaid she would text me" She didnt anyway. She hasn’t deleted me on fb( the devil I know) And thething is she’s just trying to hard to show she’s ok! the amount of crap sheputs on is unreal all about nights out and how good her life is. She indirectlytells me everything she does loll. I’ve hidden her from my feed now Anyway I stupidly drunk dialled her last Sunday about football scores notabout me and her just crack in vernal but I guessed she didn’t find it amusing becauseshe said to one of my friend "well hes totally blown it cz he rang me loadswhen he was out" well w.e that is a ridiculas reason to blow any chancewhich I didn’t even no I had! so no sleep lost there. I’ve adopted no contact even though I broke it by drunk dialling I’ve donewell after that I’ve deleted her number from my fone to avoid anymore mishaps. Although I was out on Saturday night and she was out. She was very rude tome when I waved at her and gave me a horrible look. Her friend when home andshe stayed out with MY friends yes MY friends I felt really awkward but apparentlyI did a good job in looking like I was fine and it was her who was the who feltawkward! I have no idea what she’s up to and tbh I don’t even know if I care she’strying so hard to prove she’s ok its actually see through. Just very annoyingthat I felt awkward to approach my own friends. but in the end I did and didn’tlook at her for the rest of the night which resulted in her being very pissed Havant heard from her since loll! It just seems she’s shocked that im not chasing her like i did last time andshe doesn’t know what I’m doing so is just trying to wind me up Oh and I know not to break no contact im jsut pleased i did it in the early stages weve been split up about 5 weeks now.
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