KansasChica Posted May 21, 2012 Posted May 21, 2012 I found out this weekend that my ex boyfriend is applying for jobs across the country. It doesn't make sense, because he loved his job here and had just gotten promoted before he broke up with me. I guess I'm just a little sad. We haven't had any contact for like 3 months (breakup has been 5 months). I guess, because we have a lot of mutual friends, I expected that one day we could be friends again and maybe held out a little hope that things would work out between us. He broke up with me because he said he didn't feel the spark anymore, but I was his first real girlfriend. He's 27 and was definitely confused and withdrawn towards the end. I think his withdrawing made me a little extra clingier, but I never begged and annoyed him afterwards. Just backed off and gave him space. I definitely still love him and I'm not sure what I should do. I'm a couple years older and I'm looking for a serious commitment even though I don't think he's ready for that. He's never reached out to me once. Also, Thursday is his birthday. Should I contact him? Thanks for any advice.
january2011 Posted May 21, 2012 Posted May 21, 2012 I definitely still love him and I'm not sure what I should do. I'm a couple years older and I'm looking for a serious commitment even though I don't think he's ready for that. He's never reached out to me once. Also, Thursday is his birthday. Should I contact him? Carry on living your life without him. Your goals don't match. He isn't concerned enough about you to reach out. No, you should not contact him. He's moving on with his life. You need to do the same. 1
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