KathyM Posted June 17, 2012 Posted June 17, 2012 Men use alcohol as an excuse for a lot of bad behavior--everything from infidelity to beating up your wife. Alcohol does not make you do what you don't want to do. He wanted to do this. Make no mistake about that. He knew it was wrong, he knew he was married, he knew it would hurt you, but he did it anyway. Don't accept alcohol as an excuse for betrayal. And just to answer your original question, men who would engage in a ONS while supposedly in love with his wife will do it again when it suits him. My sister's ex husband was all lovey-dovey and begging for forgiveness after his ONS, or rather his two ONS , so she believed he was remorseful and it was just a mistake in judgement that will never happen again. Well, it happened again after she had forgiven him and invested many more years of her life with him. Make no mistake, your husband wanted to do this, and so he did it. Don't let him use alcohol as an excuse. The alcohol did not make him do it.
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