Dina9 Posted May 21, 2012 Posted May 21, 2012 (edited) I've known that guy for the last couple of weeks ever since we briefly met once and then I added him on Facebook. We started chatting and we haven't stopped since. I've been trying to play it cool and let him do all the work, and it seemed to be working. All my friends and his friends (as far as I know) think that he likes me, and I think so too. He's showing all the signs and he seems to have singled me out, chatting everyday, all day and hanging out whenver possible. However, when my friends asked him about it, he said that there's nothing going on and that i'm a year older than him, so, it can't be. How can he possibly think like that and act completely different!? Is he playing me or is he doing that cuz he's confused?? Should I let it go or what!!? Cuz I don't think he's gonna say anything anytime soon and he may possibly leave me hanging and not knowing what this is for a while and I don't like not knowing where I stand. I don't wanna lose him even as a friend, but if the age issue matters to him that much then what to do? Btw i'm 21 years old and he's 20 Edited May 21, 2012 by Dina9 Addition of information
january2011 Posted May 21, 2012 Posted May 21, 2012 He's either naive and/or not self-aware enough that he doesn't realise his words don't match his actions or he's being purposefully deceptive. Either way, I would let it go and cut back on these exchanges with him. Whatever his motives, he's drawing you in despite telling everyone that there's nothing going on. I'd believe him and accept that there's nothing going on, before your curiosity turns into falling for him.
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