I love him been together I've a year but he won't marry me

[Heartbrokentxgirl]

I have been with my man for Over a year and I love him so much, and our kids get along great and he tells me he loves me,and for over half a year he talked all the time about wanting to marry me but now he does anything he can to avoid the subject and it breaks my heart. He is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with. What do I do? Do I leave before I get any more attached or just chance waiting years for something that my very well never happen. I want to be with him with all my heart? Please someone help give me some advice.

Edited May 21, 2012 by Heartbrokentxgirl

[january2011]

I suggest finding out what changed and the reasons for the 180.

 

Something may have happened, that may not be anything to do with you, that's changed his mind about his readiness for marriage. Whether it is to do with you or not, I think he needs to share this information so that you have a chance to address it.

 

It's up to you whether or not you set a deadline for a decision - it may be that if you do, you can set an internal deadline.

 

From experience, I know that bringing up the same topic on a regular basis within a short space of time can cause unnecessary pressure. So, after trying to broach the subject again, I'd advise letting it go for now and returning to the subject in a month or so with a view to either setting an internal deadline or calling it off if you're not happy with his answer.