winebrens21 Posted May 21, 2012 Posted May 21, 2012 :(I still miss him after 6 months NC. We were together for a little over 2 years. He lied about the pettiest things and became verbally abusive at then, to the point where I wanted to hurt myself. I am now in a better place a feel a weight has been lifted. But I miss all of the good things that he brought into myself, and I don't think anyone would ever do the things for me that he did. Maybe it was all a show though. I am scared to be alone I am only 22 going on 23 and I feel like i'm too old to be in a relationship since everyone is getting engaged and married. Ahhh frustrating. I feel so alone sometimes, and miss having someone I can talk to whenever.
ls32ssibm Posted May 21, 2012 Posted May 21, 2012 For the love of God, don't be brought down by all these people in their early 20s getting married. They are the reason the divorce rate is so high in the U.S. Wait. I've read that you aren't even full developed mentally into the person that you will be for the majority of your life until you are past your early 20s, which I believe because I am not the same person I was last year (I'm 23).
ls32ssibm Posted May 21, 2012 Posted May 21, 2012 Also, Wine, let me know if you'd ever like someone to chat with. I'm going through something slightly similar with my ex-gf.
Tart Posted May 21, 2012 Posted May 21, 2012 :(I still miss him after 6 months NC. We were together for a little over 2 years. He lied about the pettiest things and became verbally abusive at then, to the point where I wanted to hurt myself. (If he lied about the little stuff he would lie about the big stuff, and him being verbaly abusive to where you want to hurt yourself isn't worth it) I am now in a better place a feel a weight has been lifted. But I miss all of the good things that he brought into myself, and I don't think anyone would ever do the things for me that he did. (Imagine all the great times your going to have when you meet Mr right. Not some a**hole that is verbally abusive towards you) Maybe it was all a show though. I am scared to be alone I am only 22 going on 23 and I feel like i'm too old to be in a relationship since everyone is getting engaged and married. Ahhh frustrating. I feel so alone sometimes, and miss having someone I can talk to whenever. (I understand what you mean I'm 23 and feel that way sometimes. People change a lot and try to find themselves when they are our age. I already have people I.went to high school divorced with a kid, bc they thought they meet the one. Your never too old go be in a relationship. Your not alone at all I feel like this sometimes, you will meet someone that will make you forget about him, just keep your head up.)
MissBrunette84 Posted May 21, 2012 Posted May 21, 2012 I'm 27, no kids, never been married. To me I'm still young and still really don't feel ready enough for marriage or children just yet. You are young, whatever your friends do, they do. That doesn't have to be you. Grow in your own time and do what you feel is natural to you, not everyone else. You are definitely not too old to have a relationship. You are just starting out in life!
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