winebrens21 Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 It seems like a lot lately I have been having positive dreams about ex. We were together for two years and haven't spoken since then end of last year. I know that I am better off without him because of his verbal abuse and lieing about petty things which got old. But I keep having dreams about him, why? I am just afraid I will never find someone who was as good to me and listened to my problems like he did, he was my bestfriend.
d'Arthez Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 The guy in your dream may symbolize aspects of your relationship you were happy and / or unhappy about. Symbols, in general, don't mean the same thing in every dream, and they can even appear to be contradictory within the dream itself. He may simply be a symbol about what you feel is missing in your life.
NateC Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 It seems like a lot lately I have been having positive dreams about ex. We were together for two years and haven't spoken since then end of last year. I know that I am better off without him because of his verbal abuse and lieing about petty things which got old. But I keep having dreams about him, why? I am just afraid I will never find someone who was as good to me and listened to my problems like he did, he was my bestfriend. You will be able to move on. I'm sure many people here can assure you of that. It's just important that you pick up your life from where you left off. While only you can truly do this, support will always help and guide you.
SoMuchLove Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 hey girl. i have been going through the same thing. i think dreams are great because they can give you the feeling of closure even if you had none and since you said they are positive dreams, think of them as gifts to help you heal. i know it may seem like you will never find someone like him again, but if you really dont believe you two are meant to be together, then you have to believe that the right guy WILL come along. best of luck to you! trust me. .. i understand.
HHC Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 Best friends don't lie to and abuse you. He wasn't your best friend, you just focused on the parts of his personality you liked and made up in your head that they were him. I was in an abusive relationship and years later he still infects my dreams. It's horrible and it's frustrating, but it's just what happens. I just take it as my brain processing or culling and leave it at that.
singlegirl25 Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 It seems like a lot lately I have been having positive dreams about ex. We were together for two years and haven't spoken since then end of last year. I know that I am better off without him because of his verbal abuse and lieing about petty things which got old. But I keep having dreams about him, why? I am just afraid I will never find someone who was as good to me and listened to my problems like he did, he was my bestfriend. I also experienced the same thing.. the difference is that i dreamed of him before we broke up with another girl and he is avoiding me.. which came true.. its kinda creepy but i guess its just a psychological thingy.. :-/ im not sure of it..
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