sporteguy03 Posted June 25, 2004 Posted June 25, 2004 Hi, How do you ask a girl indirectly if she has a boyfriend? I really like this girl but I want to play it safe. Any ideas?
danny8630 Posted June 25, 2004 Posted June 25, 2004 sporteguy - It depends: if you know this girl and if shes interested, joke around with her be like " ---something--- what about your boyfriend?" . Hopefully, she'll say "what boyfriend?"or "no boyfriend" its all about if shes interested...remember by asking if she has a boyfriend you are making yourself vulnerable to a lie. if she doesnt like you she may simply say "yeah, i have a boyfriend"(or she might even be telling the truth, but if she digs you keep going!). Best of luck one more thing, just because she has a boyfriend doesnt mean your S.O.L. you never know, she may like you more
Varacha Posted June 25, 2004 Posted June 25, 2004 Just be straight up, if you've been flirting she'll be honest with you.
beth1.8T Posted June 25, 2004 Posted June 25, 2004 [font=arial][/font][color=darkblue][/color]yeah just be like, 'would youre boyfriend mind if we started hanging out more often?' or just say 'hey do u have a boyfriend or what?!?!' hehe <3 beth
tanbark813 Posted June 26, 2004 Posted June 26, 2004 Next time you see her say something along the lines of, "Wow, your boyfriend must really like that outfit on you." Then you'll compliment her looks, her taste in clothes, and indirectly press for bf info all in one sentence.
average guy Posted June 26, 2004 Posted June 26, 2004 ...or you could try telling her that you are single in a way the encourages her to respond with her status
fundamental Posted June 26, 2004 Posted June 26, 2004 FORGET ABOUT whether or not she has a boyfriend because if you go into a situation thinking she does, you might not be at your best. If she does and she doesn't want you, she will tell you. If she does have a boyfriend and doesn't say anything about him, then she's trying to find out if she likes you more than him. If she says she has a boyfriend, then tell her you have two girlfriends, and that she needs to catch up. fundamental
Truth Posted June 27, 2004 Posted June 27, 2004 Originally posted by fundamental FORGET ABOUT whether or not she has a boyfriend because if you go into a situation thinking she does, you might not be at your best. If she does and she doesn't want you, she will tell you. If she does have a boyfriend and doesn't say anything about him, then she's trying to find out if she likes you more than him. If she says she has a boyfriend, then tell her you have two girlfriends, and that she needs to catch up. fundamental Are you my long lost twin brother? You took the words right out of my mouth.
average guy Posted June 27, 2004 Posted June 27, 2004 Originally posted by fundamental If she says she has a boyfriend, then tell her you have two girlfriends, and that she needs to catch up. I like that A.G.
amanda25 Posted June 27, 2004 Posted June 27, 2004 Just come out and ask her!! Where's all the guts now days??LOL...ok, if not that, then what about asking one of her friends if she has a boyfriend?? Maybe that would help ya out? Good LUck
Author sporteguy03 Posted June 28, 2004 Author Posted June 28, 2004 I am just going to take it slow and not force things. She goes out alot with many people....not on dates just for fun...I'll just get to know her better first. I felt by asking her out on a date so soon is forcing the issue rather then letting it sort itself out over time.
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