neptoon Posted June 24, 2004 Posted June 24, 2004 I had a curious thing happen to me yesterday. I went to my bf's baseball game and I've been going to many of his games because it makes him really happy. There's this guy on his team who keeps staring at me some funny ways and he acts uneasy when I'm around. I'm a little bit of an introvert and not exactly a social butterfly. The last few weeks, after the game when we go to the bar, this guy keeps looking at me. He's looking at me while the game's on. I sometimes turn to talk to somebody and I see this guy just staring at me. I love my bf a lot and I don't play flirty games with other guys because I just think it's disrespectful. Last night, after the game, I was chilling with my bf and a couple of the guys' girlfriends/wives. That guy comes and stands beside me and everyone else was engaged in conversation and I'm trying to be a little less introverted these days. So I turned to him and said, "Hey, how's it going?" Then, he proceeds to say, "I'm married, I have two kids..." and he was stuttering when he said this. HUH!?! Does he think I was flirting with him or that I want him? (I've never found him attractive -- he's just there, an average guy). I don't know why he said that and his tone almost insinuated that I was! I didn't get what happened there! He wouldn't even have been my type even if he were single. Can someone please explain to me why he said that? This happens to me every so often -- where out of the blue, some guy will come and say that to me as though I were interested in him or something and they'll make it sound like that and it makes me feel weird. Am I giving off some vibe I don't know about?
CurlyIam Posted June 24, 2004 Posted June 24, 2004 I think that you caught the guy off guard. He stares at you beacuse he likes I suppose and he feels guilty, but then he still looks at you. When you began a converstion with him he said the first thing that was on his mind: he's married, he's got kids - e.g.he's doing something wrong! So what if he's married? MArried men aren't allowed to respond to a simple question as "Hey, how's it going?" ? What I find amusing is attraction. It doesn't necessarily happen between 2 beautiful, gorgeous, attractive people. Not is it planned. It just happens. This guy is simply attracted to you. That's the answer. To generalize it, you're an attractive person. There is nothing to feel guilty about! That's how you are. People misinterpret signs on daily basis. Most of them are probably ignorants too, so don't give it another minute of your thought!
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