firehawk_1 Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 (edited) Moderator note: This is a continuation of a discussion started in another thread which didn't address the topic, so I moved it here. Try 7 years....and only 2 dates and not being touched either. try that. what you say is nothing compared to this. just focus on your career. much better than a woman. women just play games etc... etc... and this forum and its posts prove the point very well in all possible levels. Edited May 20, 2012 by a LoveShack.org Moderator 1
mark 40 Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 try 7 years....and only 2 dates and not being touched either. try that. what you say is nothing compared to this. just focus on your career. much better than a woman. women just play games etc... etc... and this forum and its posts prove the point very well in all possible levels. try forever. it dumbfounds me that two short months cause some people such despair. 1
Lostinlife4now Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 I always lived with the old adage....If it is supposed to be then it will....You could be in a Burger King or a SuperMarket, or pumping gas, you never know where you will meet "YOUR NEXT". And it will come...if it is what's in the stars. I had a man in my life since I was 15, I am now 52 and this is the first time in all these years that I am alone.(single for about a year) And it's ok. Do I look when out there, SURE, but...I don't go fishing. Firehawk....Hugs....
mark 40 Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 I always lived with the old adage....If it is supposed to be then it will....You could be in a Burger King or a SuperMarket, or pumping gas, you never know where you will meet "YOUR NEXT". And it will come...if it is what's in the stars. I had a man in my life since I was 15, I am now 52 and this is the first time in all these years that I am alone.(single for about a year) And it's ok. Do I look when out there, SURE, but...I don't go fishing. Firehawk....Hugs.... its hard to believe this when its supposed to happen, it will. firehawk said he's gone seven long years and i've gone forever and i'm 40. its not happening naturally and its not happening when i put in effort. a year is a drop in the bucket to me, maybe not to most of you.
Lostinlife4now Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 its hard to believe this when its supposed to happen, it will. firehawk said he's gone seven long years and i've gone forever and i'm 40. its not happening naturally and its not happening when i put in effort. a year is a drop in the bucket to me, maybe not to most of you. Mark..... Have you ever been in love? Don't give up....not yet!
mark 40 Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 Mark..... Have you ever been in love? Don't give up....not yet! no. i've had crushes, a lot of crushes. i've had dates but i go home empty handed constantly. can't be in love if there isn't some lady that will love me.
Desensitized Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 Yeah... I don't believe the whole "it will happen when you least expect it" saying either. I think too many people put their faith in fate when all it really is is coincidence. 1
Lostinlife4now Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 no. i've had crushes, a lot of crushes. i've had dates but i go home empty handed constantly. can't be in love if there isn't some lady that will love me. You sound like a doll Mark! Are you looking for something particular in a woman? Expectations? What do you like in a woman?
mark 40 Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 Yeah... I don't believe the whole "it will happen when you least expect it" saying either. I think too many people put their faith in fate when all it really is is coincidence. nice sayings, but not true sayings. how i wish they were true.
mark 40 Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 You sound like a doll Mark! Are you looking for something particular in a woman? Expectations? What do you like in a woman? very few expectations. let's be honest. i can't afford to have them. yet it still isn't enough. a woman who shows up and doesn't cancel last minute would be nice.
Sid6.7 Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 Monkey and Mark let me tell you something, ok? If you are like this in real life, knock it off. You are the nice guy, nice guys don't get laid. And things certainly don't happen "naturally". You have to be proactive. The short answer. Be the *******. Stop giving one **** about them. If you meet a girl act as if you could do without ever seeing her again. Sounds crazy I know, but it works.
mark 40 Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 Monkey and Mark let me tell you something, ok? If you are like this in real life, knock it off. You are the nice guy, nice guys don't get laid. And things certainly don't happen "naturally". You have to be proactive. The short answer. Be the *******. Stop giving one **** about them. If you meet a girl act as if you could do without ever seeing her again. Sounds crazy I know, but it works. i've tried being fake that that. it isn't natural and it doesn't work. i'm nice and no success or i pretend to be something else and no success.
Sid6.7 Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 i've tried being fake that that. it isn't natural and it doesn't work. i'm nice and no success or i pretend to be something else and no success. Try again. You can't accept failure this easy, can you?
mark 40 Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 Try again. You can't accept failure this easy, can you? i'm 40. i've tried year after year with nothing to show for it. i'm in such a sticky morass now.
Sid6.7 Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 i'm 40. i've tried year after year with nothing to show for it. i'm in such a sticky morass now. Well you know the old definition of insanity, right? Say it with me. Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. You need to build your confidence.
mark 40 Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 Well you know the old definition of insanity, right? Say it with me. Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. You need to build your confidence. i haven't tried the same thing every time. but when i try not being myself its worse. women just don't 'fancy' me.
Mr Scorpio Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 Well you know the old definition of insanity, right? Say it with me. Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. You need to build your confidence. Please. The guy is forty and he hasn't had a relationship. How exactly is he supposed to build his confidence after that many years of rejection? Telling him to act like a jerk isn't going to work on women his age. The best advice we can probably offer him is to do what so many others do -- settle and marry someone you dont really love out of fear of dying alone.
mark 40 Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 Please. The guy is forty and he hasn't had a relationship. How exactly is he supposed to build his confidence after that many years of rejection? Telling him to act like a jerk isn't going to work on women his age. The best advice we can probably offer him is to do what so many others do -- settle and marry someone you dont really love out of fear of dying alone. even that's asking for too much. an obese lady is as likely to not 'fancy' me as a fit model.
FitChick Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 even that's asking for too much. an obese lady is as likely to not 'fancy' me as a fit model. You won't know that until you date obese women. Look on the Big Beautiful Women dating websites. Lots of pretty faces.
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